<p>Oh great. Now she logged off without replying. :(</p>
<p>Why is she playing with my heart like this? Other guys might think she’s a 7/10, but I think she’s a 10/10.</p>
<p>I REALLY hope you’re a ■■■■■. Good lord, you need to at least talk to the girl and build up some sort of relationship BEFORE you offer to fly there. You’re acting creepy and I assure you that you’ve already blown it with her, unless she’ll believe that your brother or roommate got on your computer and said that to her just to spite you.</p>
<p>Take things WAY slower the reaspn she’s not replyong is because ypu’re coming off as a creeper</p>
<p>Oh no not you again…</p>
<p>I wonder how you conme up with these ideas lol</p>
<p>Well at least I got her to reply to me. Should I ask her another question now that she didn’t reply to my last message or should I reveal my feelings for her?</p>
<p>I think you should tell her about how you told your dad for telling you that you should have friends. It will make her really appreciate that she is all you need in your life.</p>
<p>^ I just want to be her boyfriend. I don’t know why she’s doing this. I’m sure there’s 40 other guys after her on OkCupid, but they aren’t even close to being on my level intellectually or physically. She’s disappointing me with her poor decision making. :(</p>
<p>I guess DreamingBig got bored of ■■■■■■■■ College Life…</p>
<p>The OP is a ■■■■■… And if he isn’t… I no longer have faith in guys…</p>
<p>I always thought online dating was for like 40+ year olds that just learned how to use a computer?
I could never see myself looking for a relationship online when there are thousands of people right outside your door.
Anyway, I’m not taking the guy seriously, I just have developed an “un-fondness” towards online dating.</p>
<p>…OP, you really don’t know anything about girls, do you?</p>
<p>She’s clearly scared that you wouldn’t make a dependable partner. Your messages show very little potential commitment, and that’s what girls want. Book yourself a flight to San Francisco and find her address without her knowledge. Bring a diamond ring. Arrive at her doorstep and ask her to marry you. This will prove to her that you are both romantic and willing to put real effort into a relationship.</p>
<p>Best of luck!</p>
<p>I like the way you think, serenen.</p>
<p>^ Serenen, are you being serious? I really do like her a lot but I’m close to giving up.</p>
<p>I’m just as serious as you are.</p>
<p>Go get her, champ.</p>
<p>I like the idea of finding out her address and surprising her but the marriage part is a little extreme… Need more time to develop our relationship…</p>
<p>If you were actually good looking, you wouldn’t really need a dating website…</p>
<p>lol@distroll</p>
<p>Well, OP, that’s why she isn’t showing an interest back! You have said this:</p>
<p>“[insert her OkCupid user name], I’ve been through many pages on this site and yours is the best. You are truly beautiful and I know it’s our destiny to be together. Please message me back. I want to share a love with you that transcends the universe.”</p>
<p>…but you aren’t willing to marry her right now. So how is she supposed to know that your love will truly transcend the universe?? It doesn’t look like you need to develop your relationship any further if your destiny is to be together! Your woman wants commitment. She wants you to find her and propose to her, because those are the two most important things for our gender: surprises and commitment. You can even surprise her by getting her pregnant! Showing that you want to have children with her is another great way to prove your unwavering love.</p>
<p>The main problem you’re facing is that you just aren’t going far enough. Guys hit on girls all the time… but flying to SF, finding her address, secretly impregnating her, and proposing to her will set you apart from all her other suitors. You need to prove to her that you have the dedication and the love to be the man she wants and needs.</p>
<p>Serenen gives splendid advice. Listen to her.</p>
<p>reverse ■■■■■-chology</p>
<p>I see some of you guys are taking this like a joke.</p>
<p>Anyway, I just sent her one last message asking her about her summer. If she doesn’t reply to this I’ll leave her alone… forever. :(</p>
<p>If she does reply and asks me a question back I’ll keep talking to her. :)</p>
<p>If she replies with a nasty message I’ll be very angry and write one write back at her!</p>