Online Dating

Pre-College Issues High School Life
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<p>OK I'm not a HS student (three years removed) but I figured you guys could help me out on this one. </p>

<p>I recently joined the OkCupid dating web site and found this really attractive dirty blonde haired girl from California. She is amazing. We have a match percentage of 90%, friend percentage of 88% and an enemy percentage of only 2%.</p>

<p>I'm really good looking and she's fairly attractive, however, she hasn't responded to any of my messages on the website. I don't know what's going on. :(</p>

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<p>Has she logged on lately? If so, she may just not be interested in you.</p>

<p>There are probably an array of other people on there that you have/would have a high match percentage with though, so it may be best to just move on and pursue other people, or possibly seek out an alternative dating website (if you’re dissatisfied with your matches/selection).</p>

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<p>Oh dear. All dating sites are known for having males flooding females with invitations and the females having to pick and choose. Good luck.</p>

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<p>^Yah he’s right. It’s a very disproportionate ratio. But good luck anyway</p>

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<p>She has logged in since then. She looked at my profile after I messaged her but she never messaged me back.</p>

<p>I’m going to send her another message that says:
“[insert her OkCupid user name], I’ve been through many pages on this site and yours is the best. You are truly beautiful and I know it’s our destiny to be together. Please message me back. I want to share a love with you that transcends the universe.”</p>

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<p>It might just be that I don’t know anything about the online dating scene, but that potential message sounds really really creepy to me. You’re essentially telling a girl you’ve never met before that you love her. Saying that too early in real life has been known to destroy relationships alone. So I’d either let things be, or come up with something a little less creepy.</p>

<p>And sorry if I’m coming off as an *******, because it’s not what I’m intending.</p>

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<p>I think you should try your trademark intimidation techniques.</p>

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<p>Trollin’</p>

<p>trollin’</p>

<p>trollin’ on a riiivuhhh</p>

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<p>@OP please don’t tell a girl you’ve never spoken to online or in person that you are “destined to be together”… There goes ANY chance she would avtually message you back.</p>

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<p>^ We’d be a cute couple and we have a high match %.
I’m getting really depressed at her reluctance to accept our destiny.
Btw, I live across the country from her.</p>

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<p>I can tell just by her profile that if we met up in person we’d be so comfortable around each other. It’d be so perfect, I don’t know why she’s doing this to us.</p>

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<p>If I was that girl, I would be very creeped out by that message.</p>

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<p>082349, you need to keep an open mind. You’re living in this MTV universe where you’re blinded by society’s expectations. Accept the love, my friend, and you will be rewarded. The guys you think are “creepy” are the right guys and the ones you think are awesome are the abusive guys you see in Lifetime movies just putting on facades for you.</p>

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<p>First off, I don’t watch MTV or Lifetime. </p>

<p>Secondly, I did not say I thought a particular kind of guy is creepy. I just said I would be creeped out by the message. </p>

<p>Lastly, I thought I was just providing you with a possible scenario of what could happen. I apologise if this was not interpreted in the way it was intended to be.</p>

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<p>^ But you’re right though. Help me out on this one. I need to write her the perfect message so that she loves my page and asks me to hang out with her in person.</p>

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<p>Take small steps that will establish your interest in her. Just like how you would ask someone out face-to-face, put that into words.</p>

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<p>I asked her a question about herself in my first message and she looked at my profile and never responded. Do I play it off and ask her another question to show her that I care?</p>

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<p>Is there a picture of you on your profile? Maybe she didn’t find you attractive.</p>

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<p>Ha it would be hilarious if cc started an online dating forum.</p>

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<p>Yeah I have about 6 pictures. OK she replied to the message I sent an hour ago but I sent a follow-up reply to her message and she didn’t reply back.</p>

<p>The next message I send might be along the lines of:
“I really want to meet you. Should I book a flight to San Francisco so that we can go on a date?”</p>