<p>My son turned down a large school experience for a smaller LAC like Swarthmore. It cost us more, but he felt strongly that it was worth the personal attention. For him, it has panned out beautifully. There is no way he would have had the opportunities he has had at this small college at any of the big schools in his first two years. The professors have been wonderful, and the personal touch has been beyond belief. </p>
<p>My son who is a junior is doing the college tours now, and he loved one of the big state schools. He also really liked a small LAC. He could see himself in either school and happy. What he did not really see in the tour is that he would not be having the interaction with professors but with grad students in the large state school. No grad students at the LAC. The professors have the ug students as their main priority unlike the large school where there are many grad students, research and publishing demands. It can make a very big difference.</p>
<p>Now if the financial gap were unmanageable, I would not even consider it. As much as it pained me, I had to tell my college kid that we just could not afford Private LAC two years ago. The gap was just too much. State U was well below our stretch point. The college did up its merit money, and son committed to two summer jobs, to make it barely affordable. We will have to borrow senior year to make it, but I feel it is worth the stretch. However, it would not have been worth turning our family finances into a total turmoil, or saddling my son with horrible debt. You have to decide if you can live with the loan burden or come up with the money with work, if you want to go to Swarthmore.</p>