<p>Thanks to all for your thoughts, insights, and opinions. What makes CC wonderful is that you hear from all sides and can formulate responses accordingly.</p>
<p>If I may…to JHS who said that my original post cannot be trusted, I would simply say that there would be no reason for me to share what I clearly called “personal” perspectives if they were not true. </p>
<p>To pizzagirl … the initial reaction was based upon my overall impressions of everything I saw, heard, and experienced. It was more than one setting that caused me to react but rather numerous exposures. Over the years, my gut has guided me well and while an initial gut reaction to anything <em>can be</em> unwise, in this situation, it was spot-on.</p>
<p>To intparent … you are partially correct in that music was the goal (albeit not performance). And I am not heavily invested in my child’s success related to the major – it could be accounting, biology, or language. I am far from a “Broadway parent” and have always told my child that it is his choice what to pursue in college and in life. Rather, I am invested in continuing to guide where guidance is needed and in this situation, it was.</p>
<p>To allmusic … you are correct – this was not the dream school. And even if it was and situations unfolded as they did, my gut would still have kicked into gear and changes would be made.</p>
<p>And to everyone else (don’t want to overwhelm everyone) – there were safety issues involved (external vs. my child doing something) and whether some may call me a helicopter parent or not, safety is a non-negotiable for me. Yes, I know that there are issues that emerge at all colleges – urban, suburban, rural – and that college students need to learn to maneuver through all of life’s situations. This being said, I simply wanted to express my “personal” perspectives to parents who may be struggling with whether to intervene, go with their gut, and make a change.</p>
<p>And in terms of any spring semester being a step down, sometimes in life you have to step back to step forward. </p>
<p>Thanks to all again.</p>