<p>Hello everyone!</p>
<p>I'm having a distressing dilemma, although I'm afraid it may sound trivial to some of you. I am currently a prospective, admitted USC student at the Annenberg under Print & Digital Journalism. I've been blessed to have received the Presidential Scholarship. I love USC, and I can see my future here.</p>
<p>But there's one thing. I live relatively close (approximately 15-20 minutes away, probably 30-45 minutes with L.A. traffic), and my parents are not allowing me to dorm.</p>
<p>In the grand scheme of things, not being able to dorm should be the least of my worries. But I feel like it's an essential part of the college experience. That, and because I think it's crucial that I make the necessary friendships and connections in my first year (the year that requires a transition to college). Commuting every single day in L.A. traffic, losing studying time, and being disconnected from the campus during my freshman year doesn't sound ideal.</p>
<p>My parents are considering to buy me a car for this purpose. Therefore, dorming should be affordable (I will be working and paying for it, as well). Having to commute will result in car, gas, maintenance, and parking permit expenses anyway. I already told them that I'm okay with commuting in my last three years, since I only want this for my first year. I think getting the opportunity to be away from home, developing as an individual on my own, and having the college experience is a once-in-a-lifetime chance; we can get a car anytime later in my life, once I have worked hard and earned my own money for it.</p>
<p>I know this sounds outlandish, but that is the reason why I'm still considering my other two schools, UCLA (under Pre-Business Econ, which is very different from what I'm pursuing at the Annenberg) and UC Berkeley (Media Studies, which is more closely-related). I'm convinced that a USC education will be better for me in the long-run, but LA/Berk will provide me the experience outside-of-just-school that I need. With room and board, USC (for the first year) will cost me about $6-7k more than the other two.</p>
<p>I'm still in the process of convincing my parents to let me dorm. At this rate, I don't think I will be SIR'ing until the night of April 30! With all of that said, may I have input from parents who may have gone through similar experiences, or other students who are dealing/have dealt with the same situation?</p>