<p>I never thought I'd have to give up on the Amherst dream. It kind of hurts, I won't lie. Their loss.</p>
<p>They haven't rejected you yet.</p>
<p>And, really, it's not "their loss" because they get thousands of amazing candidates a year with whom they can create a strong and diverse class several times over.</p>
<p>Think about it positively: now you have the opportunity to consider colleges and universities that you otherwise would not have looked at. Ultimately, if Amherst does accept you, then it will be all the more satisfying to know that you will have chosen Amherst and that--hopefully-- it will have still remained your dream school.</p>
<p>An important lesson for young people to learn is that they must see the world in its much larger and broader perspective. To think that not getting into Amherst College ED is the biggest disappointment in your life (or so it appears, at least) at this time is a disservice to yourself. Its time to expand your horizons and realize that this is just the beginning of your journey into adulthood which will be full of surprises, disappointments, challenges, and opportunities. My advice is to relax, see what the other colleges have to offer, and move on. You will be pleasantly surprised to see that there are many wonderful colleges out there that will be a great "fit" for you. Its not about necessarily getting into a top college, but finding a college where you will be given the opportunity to develop into a well rounded learner and contributing member of society in an environment in which you will flourish. It's not just the Amhersts, Harvards, and Princetons that produce the best graduates. Great people have come from all walks of life, and educational backgrounds. Keep in mind, that some of the most amazing people never even attended college or dropped out to pursue their dreams. Not that I would recommend that! However, my point is that it's all what you make it. Your greatest gifts and strengths shall come from within.</p>