<p>Let me play devil’s advocate and say that college IS living life. Anything you do is living life; there’s no “holding pattern” or anything like that. You can explore everything in college, and in fact, college is just the setting that allows you to do that.</p>
<p>However, if you’re not ready you’re not ready. My brother was something like you - although he had a decent high school GPA and probably could’ve gotten into a local university if he wanted, he took a semester at community college and decided it wasn’t for him. Like you, he wanted to work for a few years first. So he went to a training program for a few months to become an electrical line worker and he works at an electric company how. He owns a car and a house in suburban Atlanta (he bought the house when he was 22, under the tax credit program) and makes as much as a new college grad, probably a little more.</p>
<p>I’m older than him. I own no house and no car. He makes more than me. And when I graduate with my PhD - if he’s a journeyman electrical line worker by then, we may be making around the same salary, as the journeymen at his job start at around $60-70K (journeymen are line workers with ~6+ years at the apprentice level). I’m proud of him!</p>
<p>And now, at 24, he’s decided to go back to college part-time. His job is paying for it.</p>
<p>You can be successful without a 4-year college degree. Two things to note, though:</p>
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<li>You will need some sort of technical training. There aren’t many low-skilled jobs for people with HS diplomas anymore, not without additional training, and most of the ones that exist don’t pay enough to live on. You may be stuck living with your parents and unable to afford the basics. So consider doing a 1-2 year training program - there are plenty (HVAC, electrical work, nursing, physical or occupational therapy assisting, vet tech, dental hygiene, medical assisting, engineering technology, aviation, plumbing, carpentry, that kind of stuff). Then you can work and go back to school full- or part-time later.</li>
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<p>The upside is that you now have a skill, so if you ever need to work part-time in school (or full-time while you go part time) you can. I always joke that I wish I had a nursing license because finding well-paying part-time work while I complete my PhD would be easier. I’m only half-joking when I say it.</p>
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<li>Not having a college degree will, over a lifetime, earn you less on average than having one. None of my cousins went to college either; they all have a variety of skilled laborer jobs (many of them are technicians for Verizon; two of my cousins are surgical processing techs at hospitals; one’s a CNA at a hospital). They all make decent money - enough to support families on. The ones who work at Verizon make a lot of money - one purchased a $400,000 house a few years ago. He makes well over $90,000 most years. That same one sat down with me and asked me a lot of questions about how to get back into school. The reason, he says, is because he has to work a LOT of overtime to make that much money - and he’s stuck. He can’t advance. Management has to have bachelor’s degrees.</li>
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<p>There are a lot of jobs where that’s not necessarily true - most plumbers probably don’t have BAs, for example, and master plumbers make a lot of money. But in some of fields I listed, in order to advance you need at least a bachelors.</p>