<p>I know this thread is from last month, but I read it after reading the OPs newest thread. I noticed this:</p>
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<p>So, you have cousins who have left for jobs, do people complain about them?</p>
<p>Also, it may very well be that after 1-2-5-10 years away, you do decide to work on the family farm. Maybe you have an around the world linguistic adventure and then come home to work the farm and raise a family? Maybe you never come back. Either way, the farm pays you for your time, it can pay someone else for that time.</p>
<p>I know a couple of people who have planned to go into the family business, one always planned for it and did not pursue his dreams, then the parents lost the business and the guy was too far along with life & family to go back to those dreams. He still resents it.</p>
<p>Don’t go back until you are ready or you will resent it.</p>