Question for the boys.

<p>He tells her he hates shopping and won't compromise his masculinity for that crap.</p>

<p>Hmmmm....yeah, I think thats what he says leah. :)</p>

<p>Actually, Martha's right.</p>

<p>WOW! Thats just as bad as what leah said. :p</p>

<p>Oh you boys and your masculinity...</p>

<p>It's not a masculine thing, its relationship thing. If a guy willingly goes shopping with a girl, it tells that girl that she has said guy wrapped around her finger. When this happens, the girl loses her attraction to the guy.</p>

<p>I agree w/ Junior.</p>

<p>Do you have a girlfriend Junior?</p>

<p>WTH happened to just being together with each other...I never thought of myself as controlling. A little intimidating...okay yeah...but not a wrap around the finger type girl.</p>

<p>Not anymore.</p>

<p>Do YOU?</p>

<p>I think Junior has no idea what he is talking about.</p>

<p>Why do you think you don't have a girl anymore? I'm just asking junior not to start anything</p>

<p>A good way to get a girl to like you, is to flirt with her friends.</p>

<p>I think thats pretty good advice junior.</p>

<p>Wouldn't a girl just back off if you showed interest in her friend???</p>

<p>I always thought that interest was reciprocal...</p>

<p>holdan, how is showing interest in my friend a way to get me to like you? this has happened to me before with a guy who i liked...i just though he wasnt attracted to me.</p>

<p>Why is it that you don't have a girl Junior?</p>

<p>Junior is not an expert</p>

<p>Like said I think doing what she wants to do is the smartest thing to do. I'm going my way dude!</p>

<p>No. Flirt is different from showing interest. I do not suggest dating a girl's friend, that could easily backfire.</p>

<p>Maybe I explained myself wrong. Say you were at a party, and saw a girl that you liked who was in another group. Once you introduce yourself to that group, ignore the girl that you are interested in and talk with all her friends. The girl you are after then feels ignored, and then starts feeling inadequate and a need to prove herself to you. As this happens, you become more attractive to her.</p>

<p>Sadly, he's totally right haha</p>

<p>Dude answer my question! Why don't you have a girl?</p>

<p>I think thats not a good thing to do Junior. </p>

<p>I think it would be alot easier to just talk to the girl you are interested in. B/c what if she is not interested in you and you are wasting your time to flirt with some girls you dont like.</p>