<p>Hey guys. I'm a long time lurker and finally joined in the hopes of getting some good advice on a non-academic issue. Sorry for the long rant. </p>
<p>(Very) Long story short, my life was ruined by a ***** and I'm finally ready to get her back. She's been pulling all manner of stunts over the past three years to shatter my reputation, school performance, and relationships with friends, and last month - two weeks before the end of the year - I found her on top of my boyfriend of three years backstage of our auditorium. He left me for her shortly after. We were committed to each other and it really broke my heart, but I'm slowly getting over it and am ready to end this once and for all.</p>
<p>I guess this shouldn't be a surprise to me since she... gets around... quite a bit (she practically did the entire guys LAX team this year). To make things worse she's really popular and has a ton of skank friends, who I know all secretly hate her as much as I do. She has a party coming up this weekend and I want to maker her feel as ****** as she's made me feel over the past three years at our prep school. Practically all of the upperclassmen are invited, including various sports teams and my friends (with the exception of me! That skank!) My current friends have expressed interest in wanting to help me. Do you guys have any ideas on what I could do at/after the party to get her back? I'm hanging out with a bunch of my friends later tonight to brainstorm.</p>
<p>You see, I’ve been telling myself that for a long time. I really am not a vengeful person, but I’ve been hurt pretty badly. After:
backstabbing me at my birthday party
unhooking my bikini top in front of our entire class at a pool party
turning most of my friends, including my best friend, against me
spreading nasty rumors about me
threatening me*
*This was just ridiculous. We both want to go to the same school, and she told me that if I didn’t drop out of the top 5 (by tanking on a major test), she’d “annihilate me”.
giving my boyfriend a lap dance at our junior ball/prom
and finally sleeping with him right before the year ended</p>
<p>I think that my motives are more than a little justified.</p>
<p>It’s really difficult to explain, as this goes back way back when to eight grade, when we were both friends. Without getting into too much detail, she basically decided that she wanted to be the “popular” girl in high school and wanted a new group of friends. I called her out on it, and she’s been ****ed since then. It also doesn’t help that we both want to get into the same Ivy, and traditionally only about two or three people from my school get in there per year (and there are quite a few people, me included, ranking ahead of her).</p>
<p>I don’t think there’s anything you can do, honestly. If everyone else already hates her, then you don’t really have to do anything to embarrass her. People probably already feel sorry for her.</p>
<p>If you’re the only one who’ve seen her dark side, then maybe you’ll just end up looking like a *****.</p>
<p>^Pics of the unhooked bikini shot or it didn’t happen. If you post the pics here, we may be able to help. Of course, this would only be for legal purposes.</p>
<p>You see, her closest “friends” are in it because they’re groupies; they’re not going to do anything to jeopardize their status. All the guys love her because she’s easy (which I don’t get), and most of the girls in the class bow down to her because if they show any animosity, she will ruin them socially. Others have seen her dark side, and I know a crap ton of people who would like to see her taken down. But I have to do something legit. It’s go big or go home for me. I’m about to plan something with my friends, so we’ll see how that goes. bumppppp for more advice</p>
<p>PS ^^ Well, considering the fact that she slept with my boyfriend, I would like to get her back in a similar fashion, or at least humiliate her publicly. My friends told me she has her eye on this one guy on the soccer team (I’ve confirmed this), and I know he’ll be at her party this weekend.</p>
<p>PSS ^ Haha that was so funny i forgot to laugh</p>
<p>first off, you need to get that guy back also</p>
<p>secondly, your friends were never that good to begin with if she was able to turn them against you (I’ve had a ***** try to do that and if failed because my friends are tight), so don’t trust them to go all out with you</p>
<p>my revenge method suggestion: find a way to get her pregnant, switch her BC or something</p>
<p>or kick her ass (I’d just kick her ass, but not over a guy, probably over all the other stuff, and then kick the guy in the nuts or something, or tell everyone how small his dick was)</p>
<p>This advice is going to sound like it’s coming from your mom but listen to my perspective. If you choose to get revenge on her, she is just going to continue what she is doing but elevate it to a new level. She doesn’t like you anymore, she wants you to be hurt and she might want you to retaliate. You are just on her mind, that’s all; ignore her and show her you aren’t bothered by what she is doing. She is turning into a total slut and you are not doing anything wrong at all. Stay focused and get into the ivy. When she doesn’t make it cause shes getting wasted, you’ll have the best revenge.</p>
<p>^Another long story lol… in my sophomore year she spread a bunch of rumors about me to them (saying I liked my friends’ bfs, was a whore, was a calculating biotch, etc.). They all also wanted to elevate their status like she had done in the years prior, so they decided to rejoin with her and kick me to the curb. Luckily my new group of friends are really sweet :). </p>
<p>Also, I really like Lucky2010’s suggestion. Does anyone have any good experiences with this kind of thing? </p>
<p>And I really appreciate the suggestions, even those dissuading me. But I just can’t ignore this anymore and I know its time for me to stand up for myself and take this biotch down.</p>
<p>I’m pretty sure tricking her into getting pregnant is way too far. Also, if she’s a slut and an uncaring person, I would just assume that would turn into an abortion. And violence would only seem appropriate if she violated you again.</p>
<p>At this party, will she be drinking or having sex with guys or something?</p>
<p>^Well, she’s violated me plenty of times, but I’m not really up for physically attacking her or anything. I just want to show her who’s boss; I need to destroy her emotionally/socially if possible.</p>
<p>And OFCOURSE SHE WILL!! I’ve already been told that there will be a jacuzzi, “dancing poles”, and “guest rooms”. This is one area which I would like to exploit, if possible.</p>