Roommate Problem

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<p>I was just wondering if some people can tell me what they would do in this situation.</p>

<p>My second year of college my roommate decided he really wanted to get a triple with his other friend which I didn't know too well. I agreed to it, a little hesitant, and we ended up getting the triple. The first couple of weeks went fine and then everything went downhill. Mind you that my original roommate is my best friend. The third roommate that we live with ended up working fine with me and we became pretty good friends. Thats when the problems really started. My best friend has jealousy issues and can't stand that i'm friends with our other roommate. And this has been an ongoing problem from October to present. However things changed a little. Now its not my other roommate that makes my friend jealous, its literally every person I talk to and basically he makes me feel like im the bad guy. He barely talks to me like we use to, there isnt any fun B<em>ll</em><strong><em>ing or messing around. Hes always serious and its really starting to make my life harder because hes causing unwanted tension in the room. I really have done nothing wrong I do everything I can to go out of my way and include him in stuff talk to him anything just make things normal. He refuses to accept any offers I extend like going to breakfast with me or anything. Today we walked to class together because we have the same class and he sits next to me obviously but then one of my friends comes over and sits next to me and starts B</em>ull</strong>**tting with me the same way all guys do. Then a couple of my other friends come in there wasnt really room by me so they got their own row together. then right before class starts my roommate stands up doesnt say a word to me and moves up front with our other group of friends. And sometimes i wonder if im just looking into to it to much and its no big deal but it wasnt just me that noticed it was a couple that noticed and said something. ANyways I know this is a long thread but any suggestions would be appreciated because i have no idea how to handle the situation I've sat down with my roommate and straight up asked him whats wrong 100 times and even when he admits to it and things settle out a little they go right back to the bad situation after less than a week</p>

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<p>Wow, honestly I can’t say I’d want to be friends with someone who still acted like they were in middle school. Sorry, more to the point now… If you’ve already asked him about it before and he still acts the same, I would say the only thing you can do now is ignore it. Just act like you don’t notice his passive-aggressiveness. Maybe he’ll realize that you’re not doing anything to hurt him, you’re just living your life and that acting immature isn’t going to make you stop. I would say maybe he feels left out, but you said you try to include him so I don’t think there’s much else you can do. I mean, you’re not his property; you’re allowed to have other friends.</p>

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<p>Tell him to stop acting like a little b***h.</p>

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<p>thank you see i though I was being insensitive to the situation when I was thinking the same thing but you basically just clarified that im not the crazy one
thank you</p>