<p>Im a second semester freshman with 5 weeks left in the spring year and my experience at college has been super hard. My roommate has made the adjusting process super unbearable. He mentioned from the start that he was gay. I accepted it but mentioned keep to yourself and as long as you don't interfere with my space I could tolerate it. I should have moved out that moment. The first semester had lots of challenging bumps as we came from completely different backgrounds and values. Now in the second semester his boyfriend. Awful. Has been spending weekends and friday over. This has been super awkward for me and my suite mate and I put off the problem for to long. Now I'm paying the health consequences. This has happened for 5 or 6 weeks while I was over and I would leave in and out when they were they. Now it has become unbearable and i'm starting to move out with no where to go. College has been tough adjusting for me as I'm a expat kid and moved to a pretty domestic US college. On top of this roommate problem now I don't have a place to go with only 5 weeks of class left. Im currently in the transition room in the dorm hall hoping for the best that I will be able to find some awesome roommates that will help make up my miserable freshman year of ups and downs in college. Any advice is appreciated. Thanks.</p>
<p>Have you tried actually talking to your roommate about this? You could make a rule about no overnight guests or you could ask for notice before his boyfriend comes over. Do you have to leave the room every time he comes over? Why don’t you just ask them to go to his place if they want to be alone?</p>
<p>You need to speak up. You should not have to leave your own place all the time. I wouldn’t want someone staying over in a dorm. Super awkward in that small space. I wish you the best. Speak UP and tell him you need to focus on studying for finals and can we cut down the overnights or can he spend them elsewhere. </p>