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That is exactly the sort of over-involvement/meddling that I think WCM needs to refrain from. We don’t know that WestCoastDaughter wants a different roommate. Maybe WCD is very, very happy to have the privacy that comes with a roommate who has essentially moved in to her boyfriends room and only stops by occasionally for a clothing exchange; maybe RM is a very nice girl with a mom-from-hell and WCD would like to continue to be her friend and to live with her. Maybe not – but that still is up to the daughter to decide.</p>
<p>Getting drawn into the drama and becoming a co-participant in maternal meddling isn’t going to help the situation, nor is it a help to read more into the situation than is there on the surface.</p>