<p>Remember, WCM’s d’s response to RM’s discussions with RM’s mother may be, “Yeah, her mom was really down about her spending so much time with bf and grades dropping, so I told her she could blame it on me. And then her blaming got a bit out of hand. I didn’t think the mom would go off on the depression thing, or call you, or anything like that and I’m sorry, but I’m OK, so it’s no big deal.” Apparently the RM’s mom is overly controlling, and the kids may have had this kind of discussion to get RM’s mom off her back.</p>
<p>You’re also all assuming that the college officials involved in the “investigation” did it all behind WCM’s D’s back. They very well may have talked to her about it, to determine that all is well. I can easily see this already having been resolved between the RM’s, laughing about “how crazy mothers are” at Starbucks.</p>
<p>I agree that since no physical or academic harm was done, and it’s the RM’s mother who went off the deep end, not the RM as far as we know (and the college officials know that the RM’s mother wend off the deep end), changing rooms needs to be WCM’s D’s decision.</p>