School Forms Help???

Ok so basically I’ve been done with my application for University of Rochester for a long time now but I’ve been waiting for my counselor to get my forms and transcript sent in. I told her around the beginning of October and the due date for ED is November 1 and she has yet to fill out any forms and I’ve reminded her and omg I’m so worried that I’ll miss the deadline. I intend on talking to her tomorrow but I’ve been so anxious about this. Basically, how long does it take for colleges to receive my transcript and forms? Because I sent in my ACT scores 2 weeks ago and they have yet to receive that. And If I send the materials in before the due date and they lose them or something will they be lenient or will I be like not considered at all for the ED pool? Somebody ease my nerves please omg.