<p>When I was a freshmen I thought it was disgusting for a senior boy to be dating a freshmen girl, you know what the guy wants. I still think it's disgusting, I know I would never date a freshmen.</p>
<p>About a senior who has dated lots of people and is now going after a freshman....hmmmmm....serial dater...gone through everyone their age....now has to go after a 14 year old....yuck. I don't think much of them....its tacky, and no matter what the freshman him or her thinks, how flattered they are, its still bad....I have no respect for a senior dating a freshman.</p>
<p>Guys at my school are always competing to see who can sleep w/the most frosh.</p>
<p>GROSS.</p>
<p>it may be gross, but it's a competition. and you know us guys, we are COMPETITIVE</p>
<p>unfortunately, i'm dead last :-/</p>
<p>When people say "age ain't nothin' but a number" they don't mean when the difference in age is the difference between statutory and consensual. No big deal if someone getting married, or dating, is 20 and the other person is 30 - a lot of peopel have time gaps like that. But take it back a few years, and all of a sudden a 15 year old going out with a 25 year old is not so hot. Granted, seniors usually are not 25, but still... I was almost in a similar situation with a senior when I was a freshmen and all I can say is that I am so happy my parents accidentally found out about that b/c I would have been headed towards major problems.</p>
<p>lock12 - somewhere there is a case for the maturity argument but I am not so sure that a 13yr old is ready to play in the ballpark of a 17/18yr old. No clue how old you are, but if you are on the upper side of the teenage scale, think how much you/your attitudes/ priorities have changed over the years...</p>
<p>I'm 17 and just got asked on a date by a 27 year old...I told him I had a boyfriend...majorly creepy</p>
<p>YEAH SPANKS.... that IS very very creepy :eek:</p>
<p>i think you guys are way too judgemental. (oh i don't/didn't date a freshman.)</p>
<p>WHy not judge someone who needs to date some one who is 13-14, when that person is 18.....pathetic</p>
<p>Laurenm: What kind of guy would be willing to let you get into so much trouble with your parents? Does that show he cares? Having to lie, sneak around, cheat, what kind of person thinks that is good....Think about it....</p>
<p>Don't know, I've never thought of it like that. He was always worried about me getting into trouble, but it was my choice. I wanted to see him and my parents are strict so I just did it. I mean there are plenty of teenagers who lie to their parents, what do you expect? Which of course doesn't make it right but it happens, especially with freshmen. Like I said it caused problems and we're not seriously dating anymore.</p>
<p>Notice how the majority is younger girls, older guys. Not the other way around. Hmm, interesting isn't it?</p>
<p>Because guys take advantage and girls don't (well...MOST girls don't). :D</p>
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<p>It's pretty much that way in real life too.
(With some exceptions, of course)</p>
<p>Does anybody find it funny/weird that 1557 people have viewed this thread but it's gotten only 72 posts? :rolleyes:</p>
<p>That's the way it always works...</p>
<p>^ yeah, that's true lol :)</p>
<p>i said this thread sounds too judgemental,
because while there would be seniors taking advantages of freshmen(honestly i did not see any in my peers),
there would be seniors who really love their freshmen gf(in fact, i did not see any of my friends do this neither. Yet it's possible i believe).
i mean in the school, freshmen do not bring big signs stating they're freshmen.</p>
<p>anyway whatever.</p>
<p>From a young senior dating a freshman:</p>
<p>You know, generalizations are, in general, bad.</p>
<p>Parental generalizations about their kids in high school are, unfortunately, worse.</p>
<p>I debated the issue for a long time before deciding to actually pursue anything with this freshman girl. She is more mature than many senior girls I know, and trust me when I say she's had MANY more life experiences.</p>
<p>I'm sorry, I just get a little mad when someone, <em>coughcitygirlsmomcough</em> calls me pathetic without even knowing me. I don't -have- to date a freshman, but I am because she's actually someone I can get along with.</p>
<p>Go figure, a teenage male who isn't all about sex.</p>
<p>is love not blind?</p>
<p>Palagoon: you can only get along with someone 3-4 years younger? that says something about you; look at yourself and think about why a child (and she is) is the person you want to have a relationship with....seriously...if she has had "many more life experiences" maybe dating an older boy is NOT something she should be doing...no matter what you think, its still not a very mature thing to do....she is just out of 8th grade....would you want your little sister to date a man...</p>
<p>Anyone who really really cares about someone, only does what is best for them, and it is not having them go against their parents....</p>