<p>Alright, my roommate is a friend of mine, I've known him to be a little bit too obsessed with sexual activity. Now he meets up with some girl here, and has been meeting up with her for sexual favors. Trust me, there's no talking to him about this stuff. I don't care what he does with his relationships, the thing that annoys me is he wants to screw around with her when I'm here, and wants me to leave. I was coming back from my class and got a text that told me not to come back. I texted back and luckily nothing got on (i wanted to get my book so i could at least do homework). He doesn't give notice, only spur of the moment. I'm not going to leave the room I'm paying a fortune for so he can **** some ugly girl in it. I go home on most weekends, and I tell him he can have her over all weekend long if he wants (usually does). Also, I suggested maybe trying to hook up in HER room, and she said her roommate wouldn't like that..... I DON'T EITHER. </p>
<p>Suggestions? Please don't say "come up with a schedule", cause in my opinion that is just ****ed up to have certain times you allow someone to have sex 2 feet from the place you sleep.</p>
<p>First of all, have the patience to wait at least an hour after posting before bumping your thread. People don’t lurk on CC 24/7.</p>
<p>Anyway, the solution’s pretty simple: if you can stomach it, just walk into the room when they’re ******* and do whatever you want. They’ll feel really awkward and stop or go somewhere else.</p>
<p>Edit: just saw that you said your roommate’s your friend. You probably shouldn’t do this if you don’t want to **** him off. Or at least pretend like you didn’t get the text or something.</p>
<p>LOL i just “counseled” my friend on this issue. You can’t be nice when it comes to things like this. In fact, be a rational d-bag. </p>
<p>Remember, it’s a double room. You paid for the room too, so you have the right to force the girl (and him along with her) out. My roommate was actually doing something with this girl, and I walked right in like it wasn’t anything. I told them to “hit it somewhere else” because I’d be in there for a while (I actually wasn’t planning on staying, but I needed to prove a point). Needless to say, it hasn’t been an issue since. </p>
<p>And whether its an ugly girl or Megan Fox, it really doesn’t matter to me ( and it shouldn’t to you ). If you need to be in there, they need to go / end it for the night.</p>
<p>I don’t know your personality/reputation on campus, but people don’t fududdle with me around here. I mean business. Oh and it helps if you yourself keep your girls out of the dorm too (so your roommate can’t use the “me too” excuse). I take my business to the Sheraton ;)</p>
<p>My roommate attempted something similar and I just flatly refused. We got into an argument about it and I told her it is my home too and while I am willing to be flexible to her social calendar as it pertains to our room, putting myself out of my home is something I will not do. If that had not resolved the issue I would have probably gone to an RA. You letting him have privacy with the girl on weekends is compromise enough. I told my roommate that if I happened to be gone for the night visiting my boyfriend then I had no problem with anything she does when I am gone, but that is not an invitation to tell me to get lost on command.</p>
<p>Your roommate sounds like a jerk. I think he does not understand proper roommate etiquette, so you should sit down with him and discuss. This is the sort of stuff you should figure out before the year moves on. </p>
<p>You should work out a plan that is suitable for both of you. Surely you are not in your room 24 hours, 7 days a week. He should be able to work around your schedule. At the same time, I think you should give him some time with his girl as long as the deal is reasonable. Spur of the moment texts is not cool and if I were you, I’d walk in on them or tell your R.A.</p>
<p>Yeah, I mean on the one hand you should probably let him have his time with her in your room (even on non-weekends) but if it really is happening so often the best thing to do to force them out is to just go about your business while they’re doing it in the room.</p>
<p>My roommate likes to sleep late. I like to sleep late too but my schedule demands that some times I’m up at 6:00am. I usually stay really quiet for as long as I can but the other day I really had to do noisy stuff. I put it off until 8:30am and then started printing my papers, organizing/cleaning my side of the room, etc. He sat up and said, “what the f*** man, I’m trying to sleep,” to which I said, “I don’t give a s***, I need to pass.”</p>
<p>As long as you’re considerate and flexible the majority of the time they have nothing to say when you put your foot down. If it gets really bad go to an RA. You have the rights in this situation not your roommate. Again, don’t be a jerk about it, but some times it just gets ridiculous.</p>
<p>I was sexiled too by my roommate. You shouldn’t really get it to the point where you hold all this in and then suddenly blow up on your roommate. Talk to him immediately and tell him that the situation bothers you. Be firm about how you feel but don’t act like a total ******bag. Both of you can work something out. I talked to my roommate about the situation and he just went over to her place a lot more often and whenever she came by, they didn’t fool around in bed. As long as you can have a one-on-one conversation with him about what’s going on and can work out a reasonable compromise, things should be fine.</p>
<p>Go into the room when he’s in there. If he forcefully tries to keep you out, you have grounds to get a roommate change, or get him ejected from housing. From your description, he is taking up such an amount of time that it is affecting your academic performance, which he has no right to do.</p>
<p>Are you living in the dorms? Perhaps you should talk to your RA if reasoning with your roommate doesn’t work out. Don’te be afraid to be assertive. Just don’t get to overly aggressive and in his face, otherwise you may send him the wrong msg.</p>
<p>Just actually talk to your room-mate NOW about it bothering you. Don’t make it a big deal, just have a CONVERSATION. I realize that this may come as a shock to you, but most people react better to a calm, level headed conversation than a sudden and unexpected “NO I WILL NOT LEAVE THE ROOM JUST SO YOU CAN HAVE SEX WHEN I CANT!!!”</p>
<p>Get him a copy of your class schedule so he knows when you’ll be out of the room, and make it clear you’re not going to conform to some arbitrary agenda put forth by his dick.</p>