Is it a different girl every time? This makes me want to pay the extra $4000 and get my own room…does this really happen?
Ha Ha. What would happen if you just …didn’t leave?
He asks me to leave…but oh well, I guess I will just deal with it.
Your roommate is really unlikeable. I’d smile and tell him (in front of the girl) that vacating for his activities every third night is beginning to impact your studies.
I feel like I’m in the minority here but I deff don’t think your roommates in the wrong. Like 4x a month is really nothing especially if on weekends only. If it’s for a hour or two I don’t think you can really say anything all night is different story though. Also don’t think it matters if different girl or same girl each time like why does it matter to anyone that’s not the dude having sex with her. Like this is college people have sex and I think 4x a month is very reasonable and it’s not like you can’t sexile him sometimes. I think as long as you have roommates this is going to bother you because it’s college people are gonna be having sex, if it was several times a week Id say something but once a week come on man.
Yea 4 times a month isn’t bad unless he’s kicking you out of the room for the entire night. Be an adult, set some ground rules about when it can happen, and hope he respects them. If he doesn’t, talk to him, and if he still doesn’t abide by your agreement, talk to the RA.
This is [somewhat] common in college. I know guys that bring back 5 different girls a week; I know guys that stay with 1.
Ask if you can join and that should put an end to it.
OH wel… it seems like I am pretty conservative about this issue cuz I personally, strongly dislike:
Girl: Hey sup
Boy: Wanna come over?
Girl: KK
…and you know the rest.
@paul2752 - Who the girl is doesn’t really matter though, does it? I mean, if it’s a random hook up or his wife of 10 years, you’re still dealing with the whole issue of being asked to leave the dorm. I don’t think social conservatism plays a role in this.
So, getting sexiled doesn’t bother you, it’s your roommate’s apparent lack of selectivity?
He just wants to make sure his roommate has standards. @JustOneDad
It’s nice when roommates care for each other.
@preamble1776 and OP Actually it does make a difference. Not that it makes a lot of difference where the guy does it in this regard, but if he’s with dozens of different girls, who knows what he could have STD-wise. Yeah, maybe he’s careful blah blah blah, but still there’s a higher risk than if he had one girlfriend or was abstinent (I know, out of date concept.) Not directly related to what you were asking about, but do watch yourself and try to make sure none of your body fluids get mixed up…
@albert69 - Are you insinuating there’s a possibility that OP can catch an STD from his roommate? Because that seems… unlikely.
@preamble1776 Sure it’s unlikely, and I hope it stays that way. All I’m getting at is that roommate’s behavior, while no doubt common, does heighten that small but present risk. Probably the awkward situation is the biggest problem, but I just wanted to point that out.
(My mom’s OCD, so I am a little too by association.)
Maybe there is a shared toilet seat involved. 
Had a buddy who sailed the seven seas for eight years sowing his wild oats and there was no STD until he got it two weeks into graduate school from a sorority girl at the good ol’ state flagship.
Poetry.
To be clear:
I don’t like having to regularly leave my room for of his ‘private’ business because the room is goddamn small as it already is with two people. God, can’t he do that somewhere else bigger than here. I know the girls are from dorms that are better than my room.
Eh, bringing over different don’t really add to my frustration, but it’s very, very strange to me. It’s just complete opposite of my morals, but certainly doens’t give me direct/indirect harm.
OK, so now it sounds like you feel he should utilize the girls’ place more. Sounds reasonable, but I have to point out that their roommates might have issues with that.