Hello, I’m currently a senior in high school and dating my
boyfriend who is the same age as me. we’ve been together since the summer of 2017. i’m
not sure on whether to break up or stay together. he wants to
go to college now and i want to go too but i’m not sure on what to do. we talked and said we would fight but i know i would be worried all the time. we’ve talked about this and said that we would always ft and talk but i just feel like he would find someone else attractive and leave me but i’m not sure. he’s a good guy and he’s been so loyal to me. i’m just gonna get worried that he’ll see someone and
want to leave me. i also am thinking about college and where to go. he told me he wants to go to govener state and he said i should go to but i’m not sure if he was serious or not. if i go to the same college, would it be a bad idea? is it possible for us to last if i get worried like this?
I’m not going to give you relationship advice but I am going to give you college advice: do not choose a college based on a where a boyfriend or girlfriend is going.
Yes it would be a bad idea to make your college selection based on your boyfriend.
If you want to give it a try long distance, go for it. If it doesn’t work, you can break up then.
To add to what the others have said, go with the long-distance relationship if you are not ready to break up, but expect it to be over by Thanksgiving. (Aka “turkey drop”.)
Before you both go off to college, give yourselves permission to go out with other people. If it’s meant to be it will be.