<p>Hi, I've been pretty bummed out lately about my college and I am really considering transferring. I just don't know if I'm making the right decision or not. </p>
<p>Here are some of my reasons
1. To be honest, I haven't made any friends here at college so far. I don't really like the vibe of the school and feel like I dont fit in. It gets really lonely here.
2. This might be the really stupid reason but my boyfriend goes to another college, he's not the main reason why I want to transfer but he definitely play a role in it since if i do transfer I do plan on applying to his school.
3. I was never actually excited or happy to go to this school in the first place. I only applied because my parents wanted me to. In the end, I didnt really get into any other school other than SUNYs. My parents were really happy and they loved the school when we visited. So in the end i ended up coming here. I feel like almost everyone was just really excited to go off to college, but I actually was not that excited. It's not like I'm homesick because I love the freedom, but i just don't like being here.
4. The school is really small and it reminds me of my high school. I kinda did wanted to attend a bigger school with large lectures. </p>
<p>Anyways, I don't know if transferring is a good decision for me. In addition to that I'm super scared and nervous about telling my parents this. I don't know how they'll take it or if they will even understand me. Also because the school that I'm considering on applying to is a lot farther away from home. I'm not sure if they'll let me go that far. </p>
<p>Please help me and give me some advices. :(</p>