<p>Basically, I don't think my boyfriend is into me as much as he says he is. He says he loves me, but I don't quite believe it. I'm skeptical of what he says now because he admitted before that he wasn't that into me (which is weird, because he was the one who asked me out). When I asked about "taking a break," he's now saying what he said isn't true anymore and that he actually loves me. I'm thinking this came about when another guy expressed that he would drop everything to be with me. I don't want to lose out on someone who reciprocates my interest while being with someone who I could only guess loves me. Btw, I like my boyfriend only slightly better than the other guy. Should I risk being with my boyfriend even though I'm not sure if he actually loves me or is into me at all? Another reason I doubt my boyfriend's sincerity is that at times, he gets more excited about my roommate than about me! What are some signs that he actually loves me?</p>
<p>One, he doesn't waffle.
Two he gets excited about you over your roommmate.
Actions speak louder than words and it sounds like your instincts are already telling you that.</p>
<p>I don't understand what you just said..."waffle" meaning to fool around? What do you think my instincts are telling me?</p>
<p>He does not love you. He only wants action.</p>
<p>Is this the same boyfriend you talked about in the College Life section? If it is, I think you should take a break and date the other guy. No guy is worth so much trouble and worrying.</p>
<p>Waffling.....going back and forth without making a decision. He likes you more when someone else is interested in you.
Proclaims his " love " for you while expressing interest in your friend.
I don't think it is at all uncommon with young men ( probably some grown men too ) As a mom with girls ( and too many boys around ) I would urge you to move on. Make the most of your youth and have fun without getting too caught up with the L word, which is grossly over used, IMO.</p>
<p>Tell him you'll break up with him unless he pays you money. If you get him to $500 or more, that's love.</p>
<p>Thanks for the input, everyone. I will stick to my boyfriend because I've fallen for him hard enough to risk it.</p>