<p>^ Yes, obviously now I know I was wrong...</p>
<p>LOL, oh that was meant for faggitis.
:)</p>
<p>I know what u mean</p>
<p>I want to meet smart, sweet, cute girls</p>
<p>but theyre hard to come around.</p>
<p>I find the best place to do so is in a park or around the local restaurants and cafe's</p>
<p>u can meet really cool poeple out of these places</p>
<p>or just around ur dorm</p>
<p>OMG, so when I saw the title I was like THAT'S MY CRITERIA FOR GUYS. AAAAH! </p>
<p>Anyway....as for advice...I'd say next year try college parties (as long as you're 18, somehow boys don't seem to like if you're jailbait) For right now, if you have time try getting a job at a place where a lot of teens work (the local pool, movie theater, whatever) just make sure it's not illegal or anything. </p>
<p>Also, maybe see if there's any sophomores that catch your eye. I know it seems embarrassing for a girl to be dating a younger guy, but honestly if it's only a year diff. no one will care.</p>
<p>lol smartee, whoops :P</p>
<p>Good looking smart guys don't settle on being sweet, sorry brah.</p>
<p>Same for good looking smart girls.</p>
<p>Thanks for your guys' responses. I found the library joke amusing ha..</p>
<p>Um, just for a record. There are NO good universities in the area. I'm 17, and I have a two year dating range. So I would date a guy who was a freshman in college- problem is, in our area all the 19 year olds would be stupid. So that leaves me with high school seniors or juniors. (17-18) I'm not totally close minded to dating younger guys, but I seriously have found them to be obviously more immature. </p>
<p>The library in our area- like i said, it is shared with the community college, and teenagers don't go there.</p>
<p>The park- the only guys there my age are skateboarders, because it's right next to a skate park.</p>
<p>The bookstores, like i said, are in the malls, so its louder and not very studious. Who knows, I'll try it.</p>
<p>^^ and duper, I am a cute, sweet, smart girl. So I disprove your theory. ;p</p>
<p>I mean, I don't have a problem not dating until high school if it means i don't have to deal with guys that are jerks, because I've had enough of that. But it would be nice to meet a sweet, cute, smart guy in southern cali before college..</p>
<p>Well if you plan to go to college there are tons of people to meet.</p>
<p>*edit I meant not dating until college. Yeah, I plan to go to college haha.</p>
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wow... your thoughts jump to sex really quickly, huh? and I'd think generally college age kids would avoid 16yo's not because of potential legal issues but simply because the age gap / life-experiences gap is kind of big.
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<p>No, mcb, their thoughts jump to sex really quickly. I'm not having sex until I'm married.</p>
<p>They totally get the "uh oh, jail bait" face. You can tell.</p>
<p>LOL @ the bookstore. you actually CAN meet cute guys there. ive met a few. its also harder because you're in junior high school...pretty much all guys are immature at that age. you can try museums too.</p>
<p>lol.. the only museums in our area is an old airforce museum a half an hour away and an art museum the same distance.</p>
<p>I'll try the bookstore ha. I like going there.</p>
<p>Apparently you've already friend-zoned all the good guys. You know, those "brothers" of yours? There's a 99% chance they're sexually attracted to you but aren't enough of that as* hole type to get your attention.</p>
<p>^ heyyy, thanks for stereotyping me with most girls! Actually, those good guy friends of mine.. like i said.. are either taken.. or wait... they friend zone me! :] (In return, I choose to make them like brothers, and not think of them of any more in that way)</p>
<p>Thanks for the great advice.</p>
<p>I highly doubt they friend-zoned you if you're as cute and intelligent as you say you are.</p>
<p>okay, look. Three good guy friends. One's taken. The other says it would be weird to date because were like best friends and he trusts me with everything. This is the same guy who didn't do more than make-out with his girlfriend for 7 months by his choice.</p>
<p>Last guy is really hot, smart, sweet.. he doesn't want to date anyone. He hasn't dated anyone for like a year now.</p>
<p>You can choose to believe I'm lying, makes no difference to me. I'm just asking for advice based on these circumstances.</p>
<p>^ I got some GREAT advice!</p>
<p>Bookstores work well, especially if you join a book-reading club or meet someone who is on your favorite section reading something</p>
<p>Diners, Parks and Cafes, although you said parks don't work well because of skaters, well how about some amusement parks?</p>
<p>try and hook up with the third guy. a lot of guys aren't big on relationships, myself included, so maybe if you know you guys are pretty cloes, try and hook up with him. then maybe you guys can even become a different kind of "buddies"... lolz</p>
<p>haikumarukuchan: thanks for the advice. I think I'll try the bookstore, a lot of people are suggesting that. Lol.. the closest amusement park is like an hour and a half away aha.</p>
<p>^ What about Cafes?
Sometimes I meet really cool people at Cafes like Starbucks or a local latte place</p>
<p>GROCERY stores work wonders too, u never know who you'll meet.</p>
<p>But bookstores are always nice, sometimes u know, even MALLS are filled with coolio people</p>
<p>go to stores u like to go and u may find out people with similar yet different interests</p>