Smart, sweet, cute guys?

Pre-College Issues High School Life
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<p>Hey everyone.</p>

<p>I'm a junior in high school. I'm pretty intelligent and good-looking.
However, every experience-without exception- with guys has been terrible.
There are only a few guys that I know that are decent guys, and they are my close friends who are either taken or like brothers.</p>

<p>Where can I meet smart guys, that have more on there minds than what is controlled by their hormones?</p>

<p>I hear the library is good.. but our library is shared with the community college. Also, from what I know, most teens just use the internet for resources..</p>

<p>The bookstore is supposedly also a good place, but both our bookstores are connected to the mall so they aren't exactly quiet places. Idk. Any ideas?</p>

<p>I'm just tired of meeting ******* guys. :/</p>

<p>Also.. I go to a very small new private school that doesn't even have seniors yet.. so meeting new people in school is not possible.</p>

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<p>…don’t come looking at my school. u won’t find any, heh :/</p>

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<p>You should try a shady bar and or strip club.</p>

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<p>Don’t friend zone your guy friends and you’ll be set. Seriously</p>

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<p>Try to surround yourself with new people at school. Maybe talk to someone new in your class that you like. Something could spark from there.</p>

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<p>For a moment, I thought this thread was talking about me, so I clicked and find out it’s not. Disappointing.</p>

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<p>Just kidding. xD</p>

<p>Wait 'till College?</p>

<p>State in the library, “Let epsilon be less than zero” and see who turns their head or chuckles. You should approach those who do.</p>

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<p>sometimes they friend-zone (or like-brother-and-sibling) you instead</p>

<p>and just wait til college to date decent guys</p>

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<p>yep, just wait for the right guy to come along, & stop anticipating.
Time goes by much faster when you don’t anticipate.</p>

<p>If you just can’t wait, then go ahead and get the experience…?
Join clubs, hang out with your guy friends who have guy friends (maybe ask them if they’re like a brother/good friend to you) maybe you won’t find any in your town, who knows?</p>

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<p>You could date me.
I’m very smart and sweet, at least. People have described me as more intimidating and dark than cute, though.</p>

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<p>I don’t know where either. If there’s a local uni in your town, maybe there, but most of the time if I talk to guys for a while there and then say I’m 16 they run in the other direction like they don’t know 16 is legal in this state (as long as they’re 19 and under). I go to a big high school, but there are way fewer guys than girls, so we all sort of share them.</p>

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<p>wow… your thoughts jump to sex really quickly, huh? and I’d think generally college age kids would avoid 16yo’s not because of potential legal issues but simply because the age gap / life-experiences gap is kind of big.</p>

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<p>Blackroses – friendship lasts longer than love, and love can definitely ruin friendships. Don’t rush into anything ^.^</p>

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<p>Mcb- for the most parts guys don’t friend zone girls. Usually it’s the other way around. From what I’ve seen.
Usually guys want to go out with girls they’re really close to. Girls usually friend zone them</p>

<p>But as rb3 said. Frindship lasts longer than love. That’s really important to consider.</p>

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<p>seems to work differently with nerds. All the guys I’m friends with just think of me as a sister-type person… they’ve gone as far as saying that if anything ever happened between us, it’d seem almost incestuous.</p>

<p>…or maybe I’m just really really unattractive</p>

<p>…or they just want to find a somewhat legit-sounding excuse for liking schoolwork more than dating</p>

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<p>Oh I see. I don’t know much about nerd guy friends cause I’m a guy</p>

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<p>Guys in highschool are not the best. A vast majority of them haven’t grown up yet and still act like they are 10. Others are too horny to understand what a relationship is, and the few good ones are typically too shy or whatnot to do anything. Slim pickin’s out there. </p>

<p>It is even harder to find a decent gay guy in HS (especially in the middle of bumblef**k NJ grr)</p>

<p>Good luck!</p>

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<p>Well at my school all the girls go for the jerks anyway so it really doesnt matter. Im a shy, smart, decently looking guy, but the girl i like( also shy, smart,and pretty) only likes jerks/ clowns. Of course they only go for the sluts so she has had no luck with them. I feel for bad for u, since u are one of the few girls who look the right things in a guy.</p>

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<p>smart, sweet, AND cute? try a gay bar</p>

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<p>lmao, mcb, I’ve seen you around CC and for some reason I’ve always thought you were a guy…</p>

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<p>^^uhh, no…</p>