social media problems

<p>i just posted this in high school class of 2017 but i figured i put it out to everyone because i need some more input on how to deal with this.</p>

<p>im screaming. my teachers daughter is in my class at my school. no one likes my chemistry teacher and there are mixed feelings anout her daughter. anyays on sunday night i tweeted about how i was going to add someone (her daughter) on snapchat to see my teacher drunk. a bunch of my friends told me she was dancing drunk and her daughter put it on her snapchat story. anyways today her daughter stalked for my twitter i guess and found me and just went off on me. i am so worried that my teacher is going to assasinate me tomorrow or i might go to the office or something. whtever i did not even mean to hurt her feelings or whatever anyone would want to see their teacher drunk its funny. but her daughter was so mad, but what i dont understand is that she is the one who put it on snapchat in the first place?!! she tweeted at me shes like my mom wasnt even drunk. i totally bit my tounge and just was so apologetic and all but her mom was definetley not holding a glass of water (the liquid was yellow like white wine). no one drinks a nonalcholic beverage while they are dancing and holds it up and she was clearly a little intoxicated. this is all so blown out of proprtion. im sorry but does anyone have advice to deal with the teacher tomorrow??? her daughter accepted my apology but still...... i feel like she should apologize to me because first of all she took my tweet the wrong way and second of all she was so rude in her tweet back at me. i laughed so hard though becaude she insulted my dancing at homecoming i was like how old are you do i really give a flying ferret. anyways yeah she needs to take a chill pill and stop pointing the finger at me. i just dont know how im going to go to school tomorrow.... arghh.</p>

<p>1) I can’t believe I just read all of that</p>

<p>2) I understand your position. Been there, done that. Basic rule of social media: Do NOT talk crap about other people on public profiles.</p>

<p>You’re both at fault here. I mean it was weird of her to stalk your twitter feed, but it’s still public and you took the risk of getting caught by talking about your teacher getting drunk. Obviously she shouldn’t have posted her mom getting drunk on her snap story, especially since she’s a TEACHER, but I don’t think you should put yourself in the position of expecting an apology right now. I know it sucks, but I would just let it go if I were you. You don’t want to stir up any more trouble with your teacher or her daughter. If your teacher goes off on you tomorrow, just apologize and admit that “it was wrong” and bla bla. You don’t have to genuinely feel sorry about it but at least pretend like you are, so you don’t get in trouble for invasion of privacy or something. Just take this as a learning experience and don’t make the same mistakes. Sorry if I sound like a mom haha but I’ve just made too many social media mistakes, and you just need to be strong about it. Years from now you’ll be laughing about it, I promise. Just stick it out, deal with the consequences, and let the whole situation cool down.</p>

<p>THAT ASIDE, if I had a twitter, I probably would’ve said something stupid like that too lol. You just got unlucky with her daughter happening to read it. But think about it, all of your other peers were probably thinking the same exact thing, they just didn’t put it on Twitter. So you’re not totally alone here. Like in 4th grade, my whole class was on this stupid website and I was the one who took the fall. I’m just trying to be nice here because I can totally see myself in your position, and you could just use a little support, I get it. It happens! Just keep it between your friends.</p>

<p>Good luck, don’t make the same mistake again :)</p>

<p>PS. Don’t let it distract you from what MATTERS – your education! Surround yourself with good people and friends, and learn and work hard for your future!</p>

<p>Update everyone I got sent to the office and the principal said she was going to expel me but she said it wasn’t like me to do something like that so she didn’t expell me (thank God) but I didn’t tell her what her daughter tweeted back at me yet so I guess I should email that to her because it was rude.</p>

<p>I WOULDNT email her the daughter’s tweets because that would only exacerbate the situation, you should be glad that you didn’t get expelled and just drop this whole situation right now. Emailing her only shows that you still do not understand that you were in the wrong.</p>

<p>I’ve gotten in trouble for controversial social media posts before, believe me. The worst part is having to weather the firestorm of criticism that comes your way, and also having to deal with the multitude of people who will be talking about it around school. It’s really annoying to have to drop a situation that you’re still angry about while classmates make fun of you behind your back. Unfortunately, that’s what you may have to do. Emailing your principal would only make matters worse; in her eyes, your teacher’s daughter’s response would have been justified. If someone tries to talk about it with you, just tell them that you have no interest in discussing that topic. </p>

<p>I wish you the best of luck in surviving this endeavor! PM me if you have any questions or need any advice :)</p>

<p>I’m not understanding how you can get sent to the office for expressing an opinion</p>

<p>exactly!!! i decided to let it go everyone in the school has basically found out about it (school of about 240) and bascially everyone is on my side like why would she take screenshots and run and email thw principal anyways i blocked her on twitter she deserves it. i feel like my 1st ammendment rights are violated lol. anyways i talked to her mom(my teacher) and she was so chill i was suprised she didnt seem to mind much and i learned she doesnt drink although im not particularlly convinced. but her daughter still pissing me off its so immature</p>