Social scene at Mizzou? Gym at rec center?

So I’m a prospective student, don’t know if I’m gonna go to Mizzou or not. Something I would like to know from recent graduates or current students is what the party scene is like? Is it the kind of place where you’re almost guaranteed to be invited to a party Thursday-Saturday? How often do they party? Where would you put it in a top 50 party schools list? I just want to know if it is a party school comparable to IU, Wisconsin Madison, UMich, USC, those kinds of places. So how does it stack up? I definitely want to have a party life in college on the weekends (and stay focused on myself and studies the rest of the time) and I want to know if it’s the kind of place where it is easy to find a party to go to if I want to. Please take this questions seriously as I’m seriously curious.

Also, when I visited, I really liked the rec center’s gym facilities. I saw the weight lifting area and was wondering what girls think of it? Is it awkward for them to be there lifting weights with all the guys around? Do guys stare a lot? Talk to them a lot? Any unspoken gym knowledge is welcome haha

Thank you very much!