<p>Okay, I need someones help or advice or something.</p>
<p>In school, in the halls everyone says hi to me, I talk to a bunch of different "social groups", I'm known as the class clown, make everyone laugh and such. In school I'm always hanging out with someone and most people like me.</p>
<p>Now here is the problem</p>
<p>On weekends, I always sit home alone. Like in school people are always talking about parties that coming weekend and stuff, but they never invite me. I don't get it, I always talk to them, and their whole group if that makes sense. It seems like they all like me. And besides that, everyone else who I talk to in school, never asks me to do anything on weekends and stuff. Like it doesn't make sense to me, if you saw me in school, you'd think I was Mr Popular.</p>
<p>I know this sounds harsh, but maybe you try a little too hard to fit in. Maybe you have to approach others and invite them to come over, instead of waiting for them to invite you.</p>
<p>I honestly don't try to fit in though thats the thing. It may sound like it, but I just talk to people I see and stuff. And I'm just like scared of rejection, thats why I don't ask anyone to hang out. Like occasionally, every month someone will ask me to hang out or something, but the other days, I just sit home alone.</p>
<p>hmm sounds like you and i are pretty similar.</p>
<p>maybe people just don't see you as the "party" type...which isn't necessarily a bad thing at all. parties aren't really all that great.</p>
<p>do you have a group of friends who are closer than others? or at least people you see more than others at school? start by just hanging out with them, or a small group of people. ask just one of your friends to come over or just go somewhere.
the fear of rejection is a rough one to overcome, but it has to be done. sorry for the clich</p>
<p>I've learned that in order to get people to invite you to hang out, you have to invite them first. So invite a couple of people, hang out with them, and maybe they'll call up some of their friends and all of you could do something as a group. Do this a couple times and eventually some of those people will start inviting you to hang out with them.</p>
<p>People probably figure your doing something with other people so they don't call you. People only really call people that call them. Try just calling somebody on a friday night when you've already heard something was goin on and saying that your lookin for somethin to do. people don't really invite people to do stuff that often especially at school they just call around on friday night and end up hangin out or goin to a party or something.</p>
<p>i was like the class clown in my old high school, and the people who went to parties and stuff, they have all been the same people since like 8th grade, so i guess they are happy with who is going to their parties already and dont really care if anyone new comes or something. i hate high school.</p>