<p>my roommate is sooo great! shes so respectful and i love her.
but she asked me if she could have the room tonight, i told her she could have it until one
but this college transition has been horrible for me (im a freshman) and the idea of not being able to get into my room until 1 makes me feel sooooo homesick! i just want to go home.
im sure it will be fine, her boyfriend is great. but getting through this first time of being sexiled is horrible. even though i love them both, i cant help but to think of the worst. i'm imagining feeling like crap tonight and hating my life! i hate feeling like other people are sooo much happier than me, and now my roommate has a boyfriend to make her even happier. it just makes me sadder and missing home even more.</p>
<p>get over it.</p>
<p>Find a late movie. Hang out with other people/meet new people.</p>
<p>slpxx16, if you are going to be an a-hole and not offer advice, just don’t bother posting.</p>
<p>OP: I’m sorry that you are feeling homesick at the moment. It was hard for me when I started college as well. Even to this day, I still feel a bit homesick. I think it is because of boredom. I’m here in my dorm (the roomie went home) and I feel a bit lonely since I have no one to talk to. I felt like taking the train and going home for the rest of the weekend.</p>
<p>I find that doing small things like hanging out at the student center, going to the library to do homework, going out on campus for a little walk or jog, riding your bike around campus (if you have one), or watching movies can help clear your mind. It also allows to be around other people so that you don’t feel like a hermit isolating yourself from society.</p>
<p>At least your roommate was considerate enough to respect you and ask beforehand. It nice that you get along with her and her boyfriend. But don’t feel bad and assume that everyone is happy because they are in a relationship. While it might be the case for your roomie, there are many people around you who might be feeling the same way you are feeling simply because they haven’t found a steady group of friends. </p>
<p>Just calm down. It’ll only be a couple of hours. Go for a walk to clear your mind. If there are any places for you to hang out and watch TV or chill on campus, go there right now! You’ll see how fast the time will go. Also, if you don’t mind me asking, are you involved in any organizations or jobs on campus? Try to get involved so you can find a friend or two so that you guys can hang out on weekends. Sometimes what you need is just a friend, not a boyfriend or significant other, to make you happy =)</p>
<p>Go do something. The less time you spend in your room the better. Trust me, there’s something out there to do till 1.</p>
<p>Can’t ever study enough…</p>
<p>yeah that’s the biggest PITA of having roommates (at least, in a non-suite room). Losing access to your own domicile cos your roommate is having sex.</p>
<p>your roommates being perfectly reasonable, she let you know beforehand, you set out a time, and now you’re blaming HER for your misery out of jealousy…</p>
<p>It’s really not that hard to get some as a girl, you just have to go out and meet people.</p>
<p>whats wrong with people getting sexiled? I mean seriously wouldnt you want your roommate to return the favor?</p>
<p>Hopefully you can find something else to do until then…it’s kind of sad if you need to be in your room every single second. </p>
<p>I fail to see how this would make you homesick, but to each his own. </p>
<p>Just remember that it’s one night, it will pass. No matter how sucky tonight may or may not be for you, there will be a tomorrow that will not be that way.</p>
<p>Get in some really comfy clothes, get a small blanket, a small pillow, laptop and study material and chill in library or dorm lobby. If you have some studying to be done… do it, or just chill, listen to music and play on the computer. It’s not that bad.</p>
<p>Or hit the town man. Find a cool jazz club and relax. Smoke a little reefer.</p>