<p>Any clueful teacher or guidance counselor can write a recommendation that is "a wink and a nod" to the admissions committee. It is a recommendation that, while ostensibly positive, falls short of true enthusiasm. It is positive enough to avoid the wrath of litigious parents (who are not supposed to have access to the recommendation, usually, anyway...). But it isn't a truly positive recommendation.</p>
<p>Here is an example :</p>
<p>Kyle is a student who is maturing well as he overcomes some personal struggles and a difficult start in high school. It is a pleasure to watch as he continues to bring up his grades and as he has applied himself to gaining the trust and respect of the faculty...</p>
<p>(blah-blah-blah)</p>
<p>... With Kyle's acceptance at University X, his social and academic growth will no doubt continue, and he will make many positive contributions to the school.</p>
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<p>The adcoms read that, note that Kyle's grades are mediocre, and also pick up on clues that he may have been disciplined short of suspension or expulsion. This ostensibly positive recommendation is very, very different from the following type:</p>
<p>One of the greatest joys of teaching is watching a young person grow and overcome difficulties. While Kyle had a rocky start in high school, he is now an exceptional young man; his teachers have remarked often that Kyle is a student who stands out not just for his accomplishments, but also for having "come a long way." Kyle's academic growth started just a bit late, but he has more than made up for that. He is now an exceptional young man, who has won over the faculty and has earned the respect and admiration of his teachers. Kyle's academic achievements demonstrate a keen mind and a great deal of intellectual curiosity...</p>
<p>(blah-blah-blah)</p>
<p>...Kyle is a unique young man with many interests and talents. I recommend him with unreserved enthusiasm, and know that he will be an excellent fit at University X.</p>
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<p>The adcoms are not stupid. They can read "Guidance Counselor Code."</p>
<p>Of course, the guidance counselor has to be one of the adults in "Kyle's" life who has not been fooled by him.</p>