<p>This is my first time post here, although I have been reading for several months now. I have a daughter and son. My d is in 11th grade (and the reason why Im making this post) and my son is in 12th and will be attending NC State next year. </p>
<p>Where to start, where to start. With my s, the college admissions process was a breeze. He knew where he wanted to go and want he wanted to do (although Im sure it will change within the next year or so) and he had the grades to get him there. He only applied to one school (NCSU) and was accepted EA. While this is not a strategy I would recommend to anyone as it can be risky, it worked for him and is happily looking forward to the fall. My d however is a different story entirely.</p>
<p>She isnt really sure about what she wants to do, and is extremely worried about to college applications to the point where she is making her mother and I worried. In my (admittedly biased) opinion, she is a lovely applicant that stands a chance a most colleges. She however is not so positive.</p>
<p>She has a variety of interests and is good in most of her subjects. She loves Spanish and has made As in it every single year (5 now), and has received the Spanish award since starting Spanish 1. However, although she wants to minor it, it is not something she is interested in as a major (something Im glad of as Im not sure how many jobs you can get with just a Spanish major). She also shows a strong interest in Politics, and scored a 5 on her AP govt exam last year. Shes talked about pursuing a degree in Political science and then perhaps going to law school, but I cannot picture my daughter as a lawyer. She is a very quiet child, who mostly keeps to herself. She also loves computers, and is a rather good programmer. This is personally what I wish she would pursue. She as always been advanced in math and it seems like it would be a good fit for it we had to buy her own computer just so we could get near this one. There are so many jobs available in Computer related fields and then the fact that shes female I just think gives her a slight edge. I feel the same way about any kind of engineering (what I majored in and something she has looked at), but she just isnt sure. One of her other main loves is music, specifically the piano. She started playing when she was 4 years old and although she is not the best at it, she has won many competitions, and competed and placed in many more. She and I both worry about the practicability of pursuing something like this as a major however. She has toyed with the idea of looking into a double major so she could combined something more math/science with a political science, music, or literature degree, but as I said its all up in the air now.</p>
<p>Right now she is looking at William and Mary, UVA, UMich, NCSU, NYU, and as a probable reach- Swarthmore.</p>
<p>And although I am trying to be as supportive as possible, I will admit that I would rather see her take a math/science route. Are any other parents out there currently in this situation? If so, what colleges are you considering? Or if youve been in this situation before, what college did they choose to go too? Any input you have would be greatly appreciated as we are getting ready to start planning our first round of college visits. Oh joy. If everything keeps going the way it is now, I think I'll be completely bald to come September.</p>