@NewJeffCT re posts #11 and #12:
I don’t see any advantage to one less class to take in college. Tuition at the college is going to be the same one way or another. Having one class out of the way doesn’t really have a tangible benefit. The student is there for four years, and may as well get all they can out of the experience.
A summer program is beneficial in many ways and is educational, just like paying for school. Do you pay for extracurricular activities for your child? Voice lessons? Dance classes? Piano lessons, etc.? It’s like that. A summer program is an intensive extracurricular and in this case, even relates to the intended college area of focus. I paid for summer programs for my non-MT major daughter that had nothing to do with her intended college focus.
Anyway, another tangible benefit of a summer program (I say this as a college counselor) is that colleges of any type like to see students having worthwhile summers (doesn’t have to be a program, per se). But with BFA in MT programs, they do look at a student’s training and experiences in the field. So, there is that added plus.
Then, add in that your daughter is going to be pursuing MT in college and the benefit of a summer program is training in the field, not just for college admissions purposes, but for her intended career. This training will help her improve her skill set, both for college admissions/auditions, and for the pursuit of going into MT, just like voice lessons or dance classes do.
My MT daughter went to a summer theater program for 8 years, 6 weeks per summer. Not only did she have a fantastic experience each time, I firmly believe that these summers at that program have had a significant impact on my daughter, both in the field of MT, and in life (she is now a professional in MT). I can’t begin to count how beneficial those summers were. In my view, the significance is vast. I believe if my kid had a credit from a summer program, it would not have made one difference for her in college because she would have still taken a full array of credits to make the most of the four years of college and not taken less credits because she could have.
I realize your wife feels differently, but perhaps you or others you know who have had MT children attend summer programs can share with her that the value and benefits fo these programs are not the credits. Those credits are not really going to benefit your child as much as the experience and training will.