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<p>Well my friend, yes he is my friend because god knows I can't get a girl friend, was dumped by his girl friend. They were always together, seemed happy, etc. Here is where I think the kink is, she is from a traditional Indian family (he is white). He said she hadnt told her family about him, in fear that they would essentially disown her. But recently she told her sister. So I think the family pressure made her dump him, but he is losing his mind. Apparently she said she didn't feel the same way as him etc, but she seemed upset about doing it. So here is my question, how long should he wait to try to get her back? What should he do. </p>

<p>They go to a very good private college, thus they are very intelligent people. I was hoping some girls (or guys who have faced this) can give me a quick answer before he does something irrational. Thanks.</p>

<p>Btw, I searched for a similar forum because I figured there had to be another one. But I couldnt find one. So if there is one I missed, I apologize in advance</p>

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<p>hhaahahahahahaahahahahaha tell him to a grow a pair.</p>

<p>Hot damn, sir.</p>

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<p>Similar forum? You mean thread?</p>

<p>You are assuming that the girls family forced her to dump you friend, which I don’t see too much evidence for.</p>

<p>I am clueless in the matters of wuv, so I can’t really help.
Yeah, I know. If I wasn’t going to say anything, why bother posting? I sometimes ask myself that as well</p>

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<p>Monoclide, that was my first advice to him. But he really likes her and has already drank himself into a pretty bad state. Its like a week before her bday too. All that money he spent=down the drain. </p>

<p>Harvey, this might be a bad place to ask considering most people on here are clueless in the matters of “wuv”. myself included</p>