<p>Okay, this is a mini-rant . . . just a warning.</p>
<p>The financial aid waitlist notification is two-pronged: (1) we don't have the $200,000 we'd need to fund your kid for four years, but (2) if you can come up with it yourself, we'll welcome your child with open arms!</p>
<p>Now perhaps, having been at the receiving end of that notification one time too many, I'm bitter. But, as far as I'm concerned, anyone who claims penury on Monday, but is able to come up with $200,000 on Tuesday should be barred from admission simply on the grounds of their prior deceit.</p>
<p>Look, I get it, rich Aunt Tilly's money isn't yours, so why should you declare it on your parent financial statement? Because it's there, it's available, she's offered it to you . . . and I consider it less than ethical to say, "Well, hold off a bit, Aunt Tilly. If we can get the school to pay for the kid, why should we bother you?" There are, after all, plenty of other families applying for aid who don't have a rich Aunt Tilly . . . and why should it be up to the school to try and figure out which ones are which?</p>
<p>I guess what I'd want to do is extend the financial aid statement to include disclosure of wealthy relatives. No reason you can't say that Uncle Burt is loaded . . . but is also a nasty old coot who wouldn't help his dying mother. There is, after all, the option on the application to disclose a "non-compliant" ex-spouse, so why not a non-compliant relative?</p>
<p>Yes, I realize that this is naive, impossible, and a host of other adjectives . . . but I am still less than amused that a full ten percent of FA waitlisted families somehow manage to come up with the needed funds . . . from a deep pocket that just wasn't worth mentioning before that letter arrived!</p>