<p>I'm awed by each one of you, those accepted and those with disappointments. You are talented young people and this is not the end all and be all even if at the moment it may feel that way. You know what you wish to pursue and there are MANY ways to pursue it. Many who go into theater went to liberal arts schools or BA Theater programs and many just did training outside of a college setting. Right now, you are immersed in this BFA admissions process but there is light at the end of this tunnel. Things work out. Setbacks happen but they are not a dead end. They are just a juncture in the road. I love what Theatermom said about a dream deferred but NOT DENIED. You will continue to pursue theater. This is not the end of that dream by far. Right now you are wrapped up in this particular path but you will find ways to continue your education and theatrical pursuits. </p>
<p>Sporti....I've heard you sing....you are accomplished. You will find a way to pursue this. You'll need to branch out and look at various ways to do that and not just one way. You'll succeed. You have the drive and you are smart to boot. You're a good person and good people are winners in life. </p>
<p>MagicBoy....until tonight, I didn't even know you were my D's friend and that I know you in real life. You are an amazing actor. You ARE in at some BFA programs. I understand if these were not your top choices or favorites but none of that is going to matter, you'll see. For BFA programs, it is a big deal to even get in ONE. A choice is nice. Getting into a favorite is difficult odds and more like an extra bonus. But you see, you are so smart, you really are because your post tonight says it all. Those other schools that were not at the top of your list, are ALSO GREAT educations and training and where you will pursue your craft, your passion, and learn and be a success. The name of the school is not the key to your success, YOU ARE. There is great training to be had at those schools too and so go and grab it. None of this is going to matter next year at this time. You'll be studying somewhere, and thriving. </p>
<p>BroadwayBound88....i am sending you hugs and hugs and hugs. You are a trooper and a talented young woman who has been handed several disappointing college decisions but you do have a BFA program to go to and and I think you will be more than fine. You'll love it and this step of your process will be a memory. I think it is Divasmom who has a D who goes to the school you got into and she says her D loves it there. Turns out we realized her D used to be in my older D's cabin at performing arts camp a while ago. Small world. Anyway, run with the opportunity you got. Look at the positive side of it all. </p>
<p>I don't wish disappointment on ANY of you. And as a parent, I know we ache when we see our kids disappointed. But we also know you are still who you are, you still can pursue your interests, you still can go to college, you still can make it, and you WILL overcome bumps in the road. This field is full of bumps. You guys are strong and you will weather them. Don't give up on your passions and dreams and remember, there are SO MANY ways to get there. Reach for the stars.....</p>
<p>Susan</p>
<p>Oops, Zal, I forgot you....I'm delighted for you that so many programs took you in. You have a nice problem right now....picking! Best wishes. I've met lots of you in person but even for those who I haven't, there is lots of talent out there and unfortunately these programs cannot take all the talented people.</p>