<p>This might sound a little strange but I am currently thinking about transferring to a local college from my current college. I live about 4 hours from my home. I was originally going to transfer next semester but I think i should give college a chance. Also, my parents and family would not support my decision as much and think i was a cop out and would not help me out during the transfer application process without giving this college the year. I am making a good amount of friends and am enjoying the freedom dorming has to offer but inside i am pretty sad. I am really afraid of being rejected by some girl or group of friends sometime in the future due to maybe the reason that I dont go to bars or dont party that much. I am an outgoing guy and most people like me even a bunch of the girls. My problem is that living on campus gets in a bad position. Also, I think for whatever reason if i do something wrong that one girl or guy might think is weird, they will tell their friends and Ill be an outcast and loose my chance of having any type of good relationship or friendship. I know I sound kind of paranoid but its happened to some people ive known. Its Mainly since I am at a small college and word gets around. Currently I am having a great time but am more nervous on the inside but I think I will give it the year. When I see kids that seem popular turn out to be the outcasts on campus due to some story about them or they are really socially awkward with no girlfriends or outgoing friends in general is something I want to avoid. Living with people gets me this way because there is a larger chance of something like this happening. In high school i was a pretty happy guy i hung out with people, partied and when i wanted to leave i can leave and go home without people seeing me till the next day. If something happens especially that this is a small campus word gets around and trust me it does. Outgoing kids that did some wrong thing have been gossiped and people are not as bubbly around them and i am trying to avoid this and not be part of the rejects and deal with a miserable four years. If my first year is bad I want to go to a local college or somewhere i can take the train to. I rather hang out with a bunch of friends after school then go home or hang out at there house rather then live with them. Sorry If i rambled on but i am asking u guys at CC to help me out. Has this happened to u. And if you transferred how did u feel. Was your social life better or you were overall happier. And how would you recommend me do in this situation. I am giving it there year and will try to remain more optimistic but if i want to transfer for my sophomore year, how would i go about this. Thanks</p>