<p>Hi, everybody,</p>
<p>OK, I totally agree with everything you're saying. I am completely aware that the guy has ZERO sense. And no balls.</p>
<p>Which is why I don't understand what I'm feeling, really. I'm not the type of girl who goes for losers, to put it bluntly. I'm not power-hungry. I'm not looking to "save" anybody -- I hate girls like that. In fact, I would much rather not save anybody, ever. I'm kind of selfish like that.</p>
<p>He's really kind of messed up in other ways. I mean, he's a great guy, smart, fun, etc., etc., but you're right -- his self-confidence is shot. He's got all these family problems, which is how I guess he sort of adopted her family. He's not in it for some "casual hookup" or whatever -- he's emotionally needy. And you're right, I don't want that.</p>
<p>So I guess I'm just gonna stop worrying about it. I'll tell him I don't want to hear about it. And, as I said in my OP, it's almost summer... I can stay away from them after that.</p>
<p>Thanks for reading and for sharing your thoughts. You really solidified what I was sort of already thinking: it's time to move on.</p>