You know what sucks?

Pre-College Issues High School Life
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<p>When you love a guy, and all you ever wanted was for him to be happy...and then he goes off and finds a girlfriend and he is ten times happier with her than he ever was with you.</p>

<p>I mean, he's happy, which is good. When he was with me he was really depressed and insecure about himself, and now he actually seems at peace for the first time in his life. I guess his new girlfriend was a gift from God. But I really wish I could've brought him that happiness. I really, really tried. And it makes me feel like I've failed somehow.</p>

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<p>Making the person I love happy would probably be the most important thing to me. If that means that the other person would be better with someone else, then let it be.</p>

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<p>Awwww! It's okay. It hurts but it just means that you two weren't as compatible...</p>

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<p>:(</p>

<p>well I tried -_-</p>

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<p>Aw, I'm sorry fizix. But if he wasn't happy then it wasn't worth it. You will find somebody better and who wants to be with you as much as you want to be with him. </p>

<p>Cheer up! It'll be ok, I promise. <em>CC hug</em></p>

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<p>awww yay for hugs :)</p>

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<p>trust me i know the feeling but if you truly love someone, then the only thing you want for his is to be happy....even if its not with you ! so its ok, and u never know what happens.. im going to through the same thing so it sucks big timee ! I KNOWW</p>

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<p>I'm sorry! :[[[</p>

<p>Things like that really sting, and I understand feeling like you failed or just weren't good enough. But that wears off, and eventually, if things play out right, you may end up with a good friend whom you're glad is nothing more. :]</p>

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<p>aw thanks guys :]</p>

<p>you know what's funny is i just talked to him about this, and he's like "what are you talking about, i'm not really that much happier than i was before"</p>

<p>and i was very confused because he definitely seemed happier</p>

<p>but maybe he's just trying to make me feel better about not making him happy.</p>

<p>and now i'm kind of sad because he's not happy, and kind of happy because he's not happy, and that makes me kind of not happy</p>

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<p>You aren't responsible for no one's happiness</p>

<p>each and everyone of us has the responsibility to make ourselves happy.</p>

<p>In a relationship, both people must find a balance of making each other happy.</p>

<p>But one cannot just 100% give, and the other just 100% take.</p>

<p>I'm sorry, I know it sucks, you'll get over it though!</p>

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<p>I hope you’re better now
if you’re still here
ever</p>

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<p>i hope you are too. relationships can be a big bummmmmmer</p>

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<p>oh …I think I know why this few months old thread is bumped again…</p>

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<p>I think that “if you love them, then you want them to be happy, even if it’s not with you” notion is bologna.</p>

<p>If they’re not with you, then you’re not happy.</p>

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<p>so TCBH necroes more threads than me??? wahh???</p>

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<p>Thanks for bumping a long ass thread. You suck.</p>

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<p>ahh, I think you should be really proud that you’re happy because he’s happy…</p>

<p>Most people I know would just feel bitter. So, even though you guys weren’t compatible, I think you’re an amazing person :)</p>

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<p>You know you love someone when you want them to be happy even if their happiness means that you’re not part of it.</p>

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<p>Different people inhabiting the same world in different ways and different eyes</p>

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<p>The first page of this thread (on default settings) is a history lesson in HSL… It must be preserved, CPA get on this.</p>