<p>I am a U.S. high school student planning to study engineering. My top choices are U of T and McGill (starting fall 2013). Although not certain, it is very likely that I will get into both universities. Anyways, I am not sure which school is my top choice. I know that others have posted a similar question but my desires in a school are a little uncouth. The prevailing opinion is that U of T is very impersonal and their grading system is unduly harsh. Most of the comments I've seen recommend McGill over U of T because of a supposedly better social scene, prettier campus, and more ethical grading system. Having recently visited both campuses, I can say that my initial preference is for U of T. I love the school and I love Toronto. Despite its praise, I found McGill and Montreal to be antiquated and dirty (from an aesthetic point of view). A waitress in Montreal described Toronto as a steely business-oriented city, while Montreal is more relaxed and artistic. Based on this comment, I would absolutely pick Toronto. Nevertheless, McGill certainly impressed me with its resources and reputation; even if Montreal is not my favorite city, I could certainly attend university there. </p>
<p>I am clearly leaning towards U of T, but some of the criticisms I keep reading are making me uneasy. I am a very hard worker and there is no environment I am more suited to in the world than a respected, challenging university. However, I would like to avoid an environment where I feel put down no matter how hard I work. Some of the remarks about U of T seem to be implying that it is very much like this. But, I am wary of acting on the word of others because I am not your normal 17 year-old. I have no intention of doing any partying while at university; I don't enjoy social situations like that at all. I do not and will not drink or use any drugs and I am bordering on asexual. Please don't mistake me for being conservative or up-tight. There is nothing I love more than to see people express themselves and experience life--that's why I am compelled to live in a large city. I simply don't enjoy these things. My idea of fun is reading for hours on end, running a brisk 5k everyday, meditating, and learning new languages. The little social interaction I require would easily be fulfilled in class, the library, or the gym. Because I am so quiet and intellectual, I am not sure if I need worry about the harsh criticisms of U of T's academic expectations. They say that one has no time for a social life at U of T: I am totally fine with that. I just don't want to be working as hard as I bloody can and still not see results in my grades. That is my one caveat about University. Because people have recommended McGill over U of T based solely on this supposed difference in grading systems, I am compelled to consider whether or not U of T is appropriate for me.</p>
<p>If you have bothered to read all this, I am sure that you may find me incredibly obsessive and probably want to tell me to stop over-thinking this. While I appreciate your concern, consider if such a comment would really have an effect on a person like myself. In short, I just need some advice on whether or not--based on your impression of me--I can handle the infamous grading system at U of T. Furthermore, please post any information about U of T or McGill that you think I might be interested in. Thank you greatly!</p>