“I have a different take on it. If you can afford it after the financial aid from Yale, she should go there.”
There is affording, and then there is affording. Which one does the OP fall into? If the parents can afford it without burden, then I agree. But if they can afford it with difficulty and personal sacrifice, I do not think it is worth it. Yale is amazing, but Michigan is only one tiny notch below. The difference is really insignificant.
“First, it would be great for her to leave Michigan and be exposed to some of the brightest people in the world in a different part of the country.”
That makes sense, although I am not sure one needs to spend $250,000 for that experience. Her daughter can easily find a job outside of Michigan when she graduates, and she will be getting paid to do so.
“No one can deny the prestige of Yale, and it has opened many higher doors than Michigan has (there are exceptions, of course).”
Prestige? yes, although Michigan is not slouch in that department either. Opening more (or higher) doors? No. There isn’t a door that Yale can open that Michigan cannot open as easily or efficiently.
“Second, she would be in a non-Big Ten football school environment. It is much more academic there. As this year has proven, football is number one at U of M, especially for the undergraduates.”
That does not even make sense. Yale is not more “academic” or “intellectual” than Michigan. Both are about the same. Michigan has an additional dimension when it comes to athletics, but that does not take away from the academic rigor of the university, it merely adds to the University’s campus life. Those who wish to ignore athletics altogether, and many choose to do so, can go happily about their business. Schools like Duke, Michigan, Notre Dame, UNC, Stanford etc…are perfectly capable of running successful athletics programs without compromising their academic/intellectual atmospheres. At Michigan, academics, not football, is number one.
“Third, if she is unhappy there but does decently, she should be able to transfer anywhere, including to U of M.”
Nobody should go to a university with the thought of transferring.
“Fourth, if she does well there, she will able to get into most graduate and professional schools, including Michigan’s renowned graduate and professional schools.”
Same with Michigan. Michigan enrolls 50 students into its own Medical school every year. That is very significant considering how good Michigan Medical School is. Michigan also enrolls 3-5 students into most other top 20 medical schools annually.