update on waitlist

<p>Canadianemigre - that was an excellent and well thought out post. Obviously, not being international leaves me lacking in terms of how financial aid works (or doesn’t as the case may be) for those students. In the article in Midd campus it says that accepted international students was at 9% (1% less than last year) and I think that’s still considerably higher than a fair number of schools (not counting the ivies etc but I don’t know the statistics). </p>

<p>For all the talk about the broken public health system in Canada, there are quite a few Americans who believe this is what the US should strive for. And if the US college system admitted all who were worthy of the education, how long would it take for the US system to mimic that of which you describe? i certainly dont subscribe to any closed door philosophies and i certainly don’t believe that the US is the only place in which to get an excellent education, but perhaps there are just that many more options than in Europe (for example). Private colleges (where there is no govt funding like state schools), cannot merely grow money in the ground and their hands are somewhat tied at some point. And I am sure there are a lot of schools that would have a lot of merit money for international students (especially if their student body is lacking in the demographic). </p>

<p>But hey… I thought I read somewhere that Canadian students are not truly in the same pool as international students? I thought there was some side door for our best friends to the north? Does that make a difference in aid as well?</p>

<p>Canadianemigre, yes, that was a very well thought out, provocative and interesting post. I have a friend from China and he clued me in to how well regarded an American education is in other parts of the world. I also have some friends from Canada and I noticed that they seemed a bit curious about how much effort I was putting into where my daughter was accepted to college. Now I see why they were perplexed. I hope you make it over here.</p>

<p>thanks Modadunn and Pea, I really appreciate the encouragement </p>

<p>and yes as someone who has had an extended interaction with the health care system through the chronic illness of a family member, I can say that the US does NOT want to mimic Canada’s health care system…boy could I tell you some nightmare stories…however, I will say that what Obama is proposing is SO far from a true socialist system, some Americans are being hilariously alarmist, as your system has major problems too …but yes Canada has severe problems with health care and should not be the outline for the US reform…anyways, I could go on about this subject for pages and pages, and I don’t want to hijack the thread</p>

<p>I’m really a walk the middle kind of person - there’s always going to be a trade off -yes somewhere like Canada is perhaps “fairer”, but you lose intensity, you lose innovation and creativity…however, for all the great things the US brings in those areas, in Canada you don’t have the extreme poverty or the backwards social policies that you see in some areas of the US…so each system has its pluses and minuses…don’t want to give the idea that I’m not proud to be Canadian, there are so many great things about the country, but we do not live up to our ideals and I feel very trapped by the lack of “spark” in the education system</p>

<p>and yes Pea you are right, Canadians don’t have the slightest clue about the process south of the border, I didn’t even know what “liberal arts” was until about two years ago…I knew that I would love to be able to take every subject, but didn’t know there was a name for it…most Canadians don’t even visit the schools because seriously, there is no difference one university to the next…most people get in everywhere and decide only by what city they would like to live in…and it is not socially acceptable to talk about leaving for the States, I was encouraged privately by one or two mentors who knew I needed that kind of challenge, but it is not something that bright HSers are encouraged to do here…in fact bright high schoolers aren’t really given any sort of opportunity at all here because god forbid they get “more” than anyone else</p>

<p>at Middlebury I have heard that Canadians are given a step up from the other intls, although I have never confirmed it…unfortunately it is one of the hardest schools to get into so if it is true I guess it didn’t really help me :frowning: but it is not the case with the vast majority of schools, …two rejections I received I was with the regular intl pool and one even said right in the rejection letter it was the money that kept me from getting in…which is nice to know but hard to swallow</p>

<p>if anything I would say it is harder for Canadians to get in, because we are not “exotic” and most Americans assume our education system is OK, whereas in fact we are not comparable to even most European countries…if England gave significant scholarships or if I could speak another language, I would be happy to head to Europe as well, even though the US schools would always be my first choice</p>

<p>To get back to the point:</p>

<p>It’s not like this thread has had a plethora of students saying, “I got in!” especially when I consider the number of students who have gotten off of waitlists at my son’s school this past week. Seriously, there are like 6 students who got offers to their top waitlist. Of course, this is to assume that a lot of wait list candidates are on CC – which is a leap – but still. We’ve really only had one (as the other got into Dartmouth and just lowered the number waiting).</p>

<p>Canadianemigre - this is one of the most ignorant posts I’ve read on CC for quite some time. Your description of the Canadian Higher education system is laughable and filled with many factual errors. Little if anything that you’ve said has any basis in fact. If you’re so enamored with the US system go pay your $50K a year and live it up.
You’ll get a comparable education, without the hand holding and country club setting at U of T , Mcgill, UBC or many of the other fine universities in Canada. It’s not even worth commenting on your lame anecdotes regarding Canadian high school students. have you ever visited a US high school?</p>

<p>Manu123… Are you from Canada? Do you have a different perspective? If so, great. Share it. Otherwise, it doesn’t seem quite right to name-call or just tell someone they are wrong while offering nothing different other than a “liar liar pants on fire” rant. You certainly cannot understand someone else’s experience and so you really can’t say that what he has been told or encouraged to do has no basis in fact. Have you ever had a chronically ill family member navigate the canadian health care system? </p>

<p>While I wont see her tonight, a good friend of mine grew up and started to raise her family in Canada. Her husband took a job here in the states primarily for the education in the US for their kids (but don’t even question who’s better in hockey). What Canadianemigre said somewhat resonated with what I have heard of her opinion. Of course, i will ask her to elaborate. But her older daughter is currently finishing up her freshman year at Stanford so I think she is pretty happy with the US educational system as I know she didn’t apply to any Canadian schools.</p>

<p>True - name calling isn’t appropriate. I let my temper get the best of me. I’ve lived in both countries for equal amounts of time, approximately 20 years or so. I attended a Canadian University for undergrad and a US ivy for grad. I don’t have any issue with Canadianemigre expressing his opinion or discussing his personal experience, it is the factual errors and the mischaracterization of the Canadian system that I found troubling. I wasn’t aware that he had a family member who was ill- I certainly wish them well and hope that they get the best care available. I didn’t read that part of the post. </p>

<p>Regarding the Canadian health care system - If you ask most Americans, particularly the 45 million or so who don’t have health insurance, whether they are pleased with their health system you will get a resounding NO. The Obama administration has made health care reform their key priority due to the incredible level of dissatisfaction that people feel regarding the US system. Polls in Canada consistently show 80% and above of the population are very satisfied with their health care. Of course this may not reflect the individual experience of CanadianEmigre and I respect that, but on an societal basis - free universal health care beats going bankrupt to pay your hospital bills or watching your child be denied treatment because your employer doesn’t provide insurance and you don’t make enough to be able to afford insurance. Everything has its trade offs I guess. If you’re wealthy and very ill you can get the best care in the world in the US. If you happen to be working poor, no insurance, just getting by, not qualifying for Medicaid - you’re out of luck. Hopefully the free market, up by your boot straps, everyone out for themselves ideology that we’ve lived with for some time will fade away…</p>

<p>I knew when I was reading what CanadianEmigre said about the Canadian educational system that it was his personal opinion and there would be people who didn’t agree with it. But some of the things he said I thought had a ring of truth to them. My friends from Canada didn’t know what I meant by a liberal arts education, I have the impression that their educations were very occupationally oriented. McGill and University of Toronto are fine schools but you shouldn’t discount the benefit of hand holding for an undergraduate. Undergraduates are only 18 years old and to have their professors take a personal interest in them can make the difference between a successful college experience and one where they get lost in the masses. Probably you are right about the country club setting, that is a luxury, not a necessity.</p>

<p>Thanks Modadunn and Pea and also thanks manu123 for the follow up post </p>

<p>btw I’m a she</p>

<p>As you all pointed out, what I said was based on my own experiences, I did not bring up many “facts” that could be wrong, I was not quoting statistics or anything like that…. I was simply saying FOR ME, the Canadian system is not a viable option</p>

<p>Canada is a very different culture than the States, and the vast majority of people ARE satisfied with the education available at top Canadian universities….and if you were lucky enough to have a good undergrad and/or high school experience in Canada, then fantastic!..but I will also say that in my opinion the vast majority of people are settling for far below what they are capable of……I was not trying to demean the people in the anecdotes – these were all very smart people!! that is the point I was trying to make…they are not motivated to do better and are not interested in anything beyond their narrow field of interest….I was also not meaning that this was typical in Canada and NOT typical in the States…I would say that it is very typical in both countries, and overall possibly more so in the States…only that the States offers both high school programs and college settings where kids frustrated by this apathy have a place to be with their peers who share their interests</p>

<p>I too started my undergrad at a top Canadian university, and was very disheartened by the level of apathy of the students and the lack of challenge in the curriculum… what you see as hand holding, I see as the possibility for personal interaction and attention, and valuable opportunities for academic growth… it is Canada’s narrow disregard for any style of education other than robotic memorization and regurgitation that has driven me to look elsewhere….for example McGill and U of T were ranked quite high in the Princeton Review recently, only not for good things….
McGill #2 Class Discussions Rare
U of T #4 Class Discussions Rare</p>

<h1>16 Professors Get Low Marks</h1>

<h1>5 Least Accessible Professors</h1>

<p>also I didn’t think this part needed saying when we are on the Middlebury thread, but I am talking about options for extremely bright people who need intense academics to get beyond where they are at…can you get a “good” education at McGill and U of T?? Yes!! equal to several of the public schools in the US. Can you get an elite education that will push the best and the brightest to fulfill their potential….you can disagree with me if you would like, but my answer is NO…I think in Canada, most gifted people simply pile more and more courses, but you don’t get depth or the ability to think creatively or critically….you simply get busy…Canada has dropped the rigor from its education so there is an extreme lack of a deep interdisciplinary and historical approach to learning</p>

<p>I completely admit that the fact that I have been failed by the quality of the public education system since grade one, and that my mother has been failed by the quality of the public health care system for almost eight years, has probably jaded my perception quite a bit….but I would also say these stories are much more common than Canadians would like to admit….manu123, your initial anger and defensiveness is so typical and I think perhaps confirms what I was saying regarding the defensive, unreflective quality of Canadian education (although your second post is duly noted and appreciated!)– it is completely taboo to criticize Canada from within and I think most of that comes from a inferiority complex with the States (that we shouldn’t have because in MANY respects we are a great unique country!!!) I am certainly not alone in my estimation of the Canadian system, as there have been lots of underground discussion from it in recent years (for example, check out the book Ivory Tower Blues by a professor from Western)… may I also point out that it sounds like you graduated quite a while ago, and I agree that twenty, maybe even ten years ago it was not the disaster it is today and was quite a strong system….the problem has increased exponentially in recent years</p>

<p>Regarding health care, I was not defending the American system as it is presently which I explained quite clearly in my last post. I was only saying that the Canadian way is not the way to fix it. The “free” aspect of Canadian aspect cancelled any of the “health care” part for my mom, so it really doesn’t matter that it’s free. And it’s not free, we pay way higher taxes. And interestingly enough 20% of the people in my hometown (a small city of 100,000 population with a large professional middle class) cannot find a family doctor because of the shortage…and it is illegal for someone to set up a private practice– maybe those are the people who aren’t in the 80%.</p>

<p>Also I think it is unfair how we have hijacked this thread, I was simply answering Modadunn’s query…and then I got carried away with my opinions… but if I wanted to debate these issues, I would have posted it another forum……and the only reason I am not posting it a new forum now is because I have no desire to discuss this much further….I am sick of people telling me that my experiences aren’t valid….I happy to share when people ask “why?” but other than that I have to know I’m doing what’s right for me and let people do the same for themselves….once again my sincerest apologies to the people here who were only interested in the Middlebury waitlist!!</p>

<p>I know we have gotten off topic so I will try to be brief. Canadianemigre, the only reason I responded to your original post was because it rang true for me.</p>

<p>Back to my Canadian friends, they strike me as being extremely bright, and when they talk about education they fall so flat. I got the impression they were not excited by school and it was very puzzling to me. They were perplexed by the notion that the same degree from two different schools would not necessarily mean you got the same education.</p>

<p>It’s the spark that you get in a small liberal arts college, at least that is how it was for me. I got to go to a small liberal arts college and it was exciting. My fellow students were engaged and motivated and I loved the format of a classroom discussion. You are not wrong, CanadianEmigre, and I hope you keep trying to get over here, I think you will find that the atmosphere at a small liberal arts college is very much what you think it is.</p>

<p>canadianemigre</p>

<p>Thanks for your response. It was a far more mature, reasoned response than I exhibited in my initial post. Maybe I’ve been in the US too long. Canada may not have provided the type of education you want but there’s something to be said for the fine Canadian, reflective, good natured temperament which you’ve exhibited. We may disagree regarding some of the “facts” of in your post but I hope you find the challenging, fulfilling academic environment you seek.</p>

<p>Well done Canadian… and you are right, I brought it up and I thank you sincerely for taking the time to write so eloquently. And I agree with Manu, for whatever reasons you think the Canadian educational system might short change you, you’ve obviously learned a wonderful thing or two about the delivery of a point of view. I too hope that you find a place to explore all of your passions, because if nothing else, your passion is easy to see and is difficult to ignore. It’s a fine balance. Well done.</p>

<p>OK… seriously… no one’s phone is ringing???</p>

<p>This is the 8,000th post on CC’s Middlebury forum!</p>

<p>thank you all SO much for your encouraging words, it’s been a tough few months and I really appreciate them</p>

<p>…unfortunately I just got waitlisted at Carleton as well, but I will keep trying…I know at this point it is better to be patient and do what is right for me…I think that this idea that you have to hurry up and go to college contributes to students choosing a place that is not right for them</p>

<p>I appreciate you sharing your experiences with me, and yes, there are many fine things about the Canadian temperment and Canada itself, I am very proud to be from here, ironically the ideals that I have received from being in Canada is what has motivated me to leave, in order to become better equipped to live up to those ideals</p>

<p>and back on topic, you’re right Modadunn, it does seem eerily quiet on the waitlist front…</p>

<p>taken off the waitlist and accepted as a feb!!</p>

<p>mbccslh: if this was Facebook I’d give you a thumbs up! Since it isn’t Facebook I’ll have to settle for a heart-felt congratulations!</p>

<p>My daughter was waitlisted at Carleton in 2006 (class of 2010) and I called–they were very nice and encouraged her to express her interest in a letter and supporting materials. She then got into Middlebury so she didn’t follow up, but with no knowledge about what the Carleton admissions office is like 3 years later, I hope you will call them and see if there’s anything you can do to help them know of your interest.</p>

<p>I do understand what you’re looking for in a US liberal arts school and I hope you will get a chance to attend one.</p>

<p>A friend of mine just got off the waitlist today too! :slight_smile: She has a couple of days to make her final decision though…</p>

<p>Is Middlebury still taking people off the waitlist? Supposedly the admissions office called my counselor yesterday asking for my school to resend my transcript. They said that they did not have it on file however I don’t understand how they could have made my initial admissions decision without it. Plus, back during the initial application process, it never said that I was missing any items. Anyone see this request as a positive sign? I have been sending them updates ever since being waitlisted and I have shown quite a bit of interest in attending.</p>

<p>I think it is a very positive sign and it would seem that somewhere between acceptance letter and waitlist letters your transcript has been misplaced – maybe it’s in another file somewhere but who the heck would know where to even start? Admissions people are human and with that distinction comes mistakes. I would suggest having the counselor FAX a copy even if it’s already been mailed. Not sure how you might follow up on their receipt without it being slightly stalkerish, but… you get the idea. And if you hear, let us know!! I was sure at least a few more waitlisted students who were then accepted would have been on CC but maybe not!</p>