<p>wow i am so not yet at the phase in which i could call those moments "hilariously awkward." cringe-worthy more like.</p>
<p>eh. yea. cringe-worthy is also one of those.
but so many instances where i just like act really weird in front of her</p>
<p>(her friend has been at a locker next to mine for the past year and this year, so one time her friends formed like a tight circle around our lockers, like TIGHT. and i stood up. and just froze. then tripped trying to get out. no one even laughed that much. it was like a 0<em>0 ></em>> -_-) from embarrassment to<br>
(i run up to her trying to get across this passageway, and she's like in the way. and its really weird cause i literally like RUN towards her and stop like inches away cause im </p>
<p>trying to get to my locker thing. and we just stood there for like 1 minute. and im just waiting for her to move. and she's just standing there)</p>
<p>yea that was long.</p>
<p>so, once you get to the stage where you can look back on things and find humor/contentment that as long as he/she's happy, you're fine, then its all good.</p>
<p>of course, you are gonna have a long time without a relationship. but at least there's semi-closure.</p>
<p>actually, i have to say that is genuinely hilarious.. although i probably wouldn't have laughed as hard if that was me. but yea. sorry about that.</p>
<p>yea. it is hilarious. but they were like actively talking. as if they hadnt noticed i was there. despite the girl next to me/me being the only people there. i stand up. total silence and staring. pretty funny.</p>
<p>lol, i hope she doesn't go on CC/ read this.
i would be just...umm. don't even want to imagine.</p>
<p>or she would find it sweet, and it would be all fairytale like.</p>
<p>or i would be found somewhere in the hills of social rejects.</p>
<p>but don't you get bored of, like pining after her?</p>
<p>Well, as a guy, what you can do to convince me that you are interested is just start talking/flirting to me a lot (I'm sure this applies to a lot of situations). If it looks like I am not returning the favor or just saying things to get by, it's likely that I am not interested. If I start talking to you interestingly, then you can bet that I would consider asking you out in the future (unless you are a girl who I usually hang out with). Anyway, I have a lot of experience with these kind of things since I used to be like you, so ask away.</p>
<p>haha... "used to be like you"?</p>
<p>this thread is amusing me haha</p>
<p>i'm in a similar situation though... theres a guy but I'm not sure if I like him or not... it wavers... but I don't know if he likes me either... I don't pick up on signals though so that might be my fault lol anyways if he ever hurt me I know at least three people that would murder him xD including a couple that are related to him </p>
<p>except he's been annoying me latley cause he's entirely too protective, and while it feels nice that someone cares I can take care of myself god damn it.</p>
<p>Well, in that I didn't used to indicate my liking of a person of the opposite sex for large amounts of time.</p>
<p>That's differently really, because I've definitely indicated already. Making this kind of sad.</p>
<p>I guess just try to indicate more or sound flirtatious? If he is not responding, then give up on him. Otherwise, just keep it up.</p>
<p>yea i'm pretty sure this is the give up phase. considering he knows and all.</p>
<p>Do what I did:</p>
<p>I hacked his e-mail id and sent everyone on his friends list an e-mail saying that his dick was a teeny weeny thing.
Its been 2 years and everyone still finds it hilarious and most importantly, no one knows it was me still. Best closure I've ever had.
Trust me. He deserved it.</p>
<p>While I should have some moral objections to that solution, I am basically just in awe.. That's pretty genius.</p>
<p>hirokee, that's hilarious and sneaky and genius! </p>
<p>i feel like something's wrong with me. i thought crushes were supposed to go away in a matter of weeks? maybe its just cause i haven't let myself like anyone or get close..i'm kinda a coward in the face of inevitable heartbreak.</p>
<p>I have a fluctuating crush. It comes and goes and comes and goes and its really getting annoying. But because I went to a girl's school I have no idea how to get over it.</p>
<p>That and the guy knows so he teases me about it... really irritating.</p>
<p>Lol at least you have the excuse that you went to an all girls' school. I have no idea why I can't just get over it. But sometimes I wonder if I just like the same guy so that I don't have to deal with rejection by other guys.</p>
<p>Wow...writergrl- you seem really cut up over this guy- never realized it untill I just read your recent post.
It's hard to get over crushes, especially one as long as yours-- Ok, here's my advice (You could still try what I did ^^ but it is really hard- had to use every brain cell and every ounce of anger I had in me)-
1. Whenever any of my friends had times like this I would always make them do something SUPER CRAZY and WILD- usually related to the guy and it always gets so MUCH better. Really. I know being crazy and impulsive is not inherent in CC users- but just try...it will be the best closure you'll ever have. Try not to kill anyone in the process though.
2. Or like my best friend did- absolutely threw herself into a completely new activity and pretty much rocked at it --- You need to focus your attention on one supreme cause-- always works.
3. Or like my other best friend- she confronted the guy and told him how much she'd always liked him (1 year and she'd even tried to take the same classes as him)- how attractive she found him, how nice he had been to her, how absolutely mean he had been to her---> But in the end she told him how she realized now that since he had never felt any of the stuff she'd felt for him- then that means that she was disllusioned and they really were not meant for each other as she'd once dreamed.
So, I think you should try the last one- it worked well really well for her- she got the most peaceful closure and you also get to tell him EVERYTHING you've ever wanted to tell him. Oh and another piece of advice- if you're doing the last one do NOT let him interrupt you. The point is to get everything you wanted to say in one shot and then you'll feel really liberated---> Closure.
If he then spews **** or calls you something mean just punch him.</p>