Thanks for that info! Nice, but unfortunate for both of us, to know that we’re in the same boat as you. Mostly I want to get info to whisper in he ear to cushion the likely blows he will get this coming week.
I’m so happy to hear your girl is happy with her safeties!
I know our kids applied to a lot of the same, maybe they will get into one of the same, there’s always hope for Vassar and maybe one of those big reaches next week!
So far mine is in at Northwestern, Wes, UMD and Muhlenberg. Nice variety of options. Any crossover w/ you? We’ll see if she wants to stay on Midd WL when she’s toured them and found out about the last 4. I do wonder if that WL is a test to see if kids are really interested. Who knows… Just happy we have some good choices!
PS. Love your name. Makes me want to channel my inner Jame Sommers!
Not necessarily. Some WLs move and others don’t. We have already planned accordingly for the accepted schools which are great options, so no need to advise. We’re good.
Not sure why you insist on an argument here. You do you, but don’t assume your views are universal, and don’t presume to speak to my circumstance unless you are in the admissions office of that particular college. You do not speak for every admissions officer out there.
Not interested in additional debate thanks. Let’s move on.
My kid knew he was a gamble from the start. He’s a ’spike-y’ kid and was on the STEM/AP conveyor belt through HS but junior year, decided to pursue a conservatory degree in violin which means that senior year you cut a ton of classes so you can practice for auditions 3-4 hours during the school day (for entry to a top tier school). And he decided to take a gap year for intense conservatory prep. Mid-gap year he had a change of heart !
So without adequate STEM/AP’s on his transcript we did the best we could and hoped that his story would be heard. These decisions were not whims; he agonized over them and was very thoughtful and mature in his essays. But there were likely many reasons that he was easy to reject. Mainly, he was fresh out of the ‘conservatory mindset’ and just wanted to explore and learn at the best possible place.
Per our GC, Reed, Macalester, Denison, Kenyon were considered targets. He was waitlisted at all but Kenyon.
Vassar, Colby, Wesleyan, Grinnell, Hamilton were low reaches. Waitlisted at Colby and Grinnell. Rejected at Wes and Hamilton.
His heart was set on Vassar from the start. Fortunately we’ve planned an awesome first post-covid vacation starting April 2!
First off congratulations on some great acceptances!!
It was our experience with our kids and numerous friends that WLs were a means of gauging interest that were drawn upon particularly at competitive LACs and for full pay students at Ivy and Ivy plus schools.
Granted this is somewhat dated (4 years) but at my kids prep school the GCs acted as “air traffic controllers” for the universe of kids who viewed their WL options as superior to acceptances. If the kid had multiple WL options the school encouraged and supported with GC follow up 1 LOCI expressing “if accepted off list I will attend” and 1 LOCI expressing “I am extremely interested in joining your community” with no promise. The students were encouraged to be detailed as to being proud of other options but focus on how school X met what they were looking for.
While not universally successful we saw a ton of movement. Thankfully even kids it didn’t work out for have survived and in most cases flourished.
As a Vassar alum I can share that 34 years ago I was accepted to Vassar and WL at Brown (where one of my kids attends). I never got off the waitlist and had a great experience as a Brewer. Only downside is that I shared this with my kid who constantly mocks me for having attended a “girls school”.