<p>I thought I would post a follow up regarding the question that launched this thread: "how might a 'voluntary' withdrawal just prior to graduation be percieved by a college? Surely it would require an explanation? Is it better than being expelled?"</p>
<p>Now that we have firsthand experience on this topic, we can eliminate the conjecture.</p>
<p>Some of you may know, from my other thread, that there wasn't really a voluntary withdrawal: my d was expelled from her h.s. without a diploma. But it may be helpful to learn what her college had to say about it.</p>
<p>Last spring, when we conferred with my d's h.s. college counselor, we were informed that her college of choice would not actually require a diploma. As a family, we elected to not volunteer the information about her explusion to the college. It was a tough call, but in hindsight, I wish we would have: Someone in my other thread mentioned that the college/private hs school world is small, and chances were the college would find out..</p>
<p>Late in the summer, the college called the h.s to seek clarification on my d's transcript. Someone at the h.s. mentioned the explusion, and there it was.</p>
<p>We arrived on campus for freshman move-in day, unaware of this most recent event. While we were moving her things into the dorm, my d received a call on her cell phone. She was asked to report to the dean of admissions' office, immediately.</p>
<p>BAMom and I accompanied our d in the walk across campus to the administration building. I, in turn, was accompanied by visions of moving her effects back out of the dorm, and yet another long drive home.</p>
<p>We all met with the dean, and he wanted to know what had happened. My daughter shared an abbreviated vesion, and he asked that she write the episode up and submit it to his office that week. He was kind, and said he thought she should not be too concerned, but did say they would make a decision upon recieving her write-up.</p>
<p>Since neither the dean nor campus security asked us to remove her things from the dorm room, I assumed she could stay, at least for a few more days. So we went back to her dorm and completed the move-in. We went out to eat, and then left my d at college with her task of writing the report.</p>
<p>Later that week, she called to inform us that the college had accepted her report, that it was going to be ok. In their opinion, she had already had appropriate consequences, and they wanted her to have a fresh start. We were humbled and relieved upon hearing this news, but there was a glitch: while the college did not actually require a diploma, the student loan program did. And since BADad was not going to make up the difference out of his own pocket, she would have to find a solution.</p>
<p>She learned that a GED was an acceptable substitute for the diploma, at least with respect to the student loan program. She is still dealing with the paperwork to obtain the GED, but it looks like she'll be sitting for the test over the winter break. I assume she'll have no trouble with the test, but the irony of settling for a GED after 4 years in a top-tier private school does not escape us.</p>
<p>There is still hope, in that her h.s. could award the diploma if she completes a year of college with no, um, bad news. At this point, we have done what we can and now the ball is in her court. We hope the best for her.</p>