So, recently, I had a falling out with a group of friends i had known since high-school. It was understandable, as I didn’t have very much time this semester with my club, workload and family. I felt like they were changing as people as well, and i no longer wanted to be around them, so i stopped contacting them. The falling out didn’t really bother me, because friends drift apart all the time, and this is nothing new to me, but what makes me feel weird the fact that they hang out with one of my roommates. They don’t invite me to hangouts that are even at my dorm. Im not really sure how to handle this situation, and even if i should do anything about it at all. i understand that even if I am no longer friends with that group, my roommate can hang out with them and be friends with them if he chooses. Still, it feels weird that i see them on social media hanging out with him, in our dorm. Any advice is appreciated. Thanks!
If you don’t want to be friends with them, then just let it go. Unfollow or mute them on social media if it really bothers you. Sure, it’s awkward that they are now friends with your roommate instead, and hang out in your dorm (I’m assuming building, not room) without you, but if you don’t want to be around them, it’s a win win…the fact that they get along with your roommate doesn’t really matter. If you really are fine with letting that friend group go, then just ignore the fact that they have moved on, too!