what can i do about this stalker?

Pre-College Issues High School Life
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<p>so there’s this kid in my class who has a “learning disability”. and he’s a freaking stalker.
1.found my friends email
2.found my friends house number off of UCI’s database
3.found out my brothers name when my brother never met this kid nor did I tell him my brother’s name.
4.found out my aim screename.
5.found my other friend’s home number from a club paper at high school. this friend goes to uci and he stalker said he'd come to his suite in a couple of weeks(LOL!) he knows where my friend lives.
6.add random people from other schools, the people whom he adds do not know him
7.adds random kids from various colleges who he doesn’t know. ie harvard, yale, princeton, etc on facebook. </p>

<p>what do i do? should i block this freak? he comes up to me everyday in class telling me random stuff and i wish he just shut up.</p>

<p>now, before you tell me i’m wrong. i wouldn’t qualify his “learning disability” as a REAL learning disability. he can’t tell expressions on people’s faces, if i look at him <strong><em>ed, he can’t tell that i’m *</em></strong>ed, etc etc. and before you tell me i’m a messed up ***bag, let me tell you one thing: Don’t people with learning disabilities want to become like everybody else? Everybody else gets told to shut up, all these negative things, yet when I say it to a disabled kid all of a sudden it’s not wrong, WHEN THEY WANT TO BECOME LIKE EVERYBODY ELSE?!?!</p>

<p>What the hell do I do with this kid figuring out my aim? Block him? He’ll just come up and complain I blocked him everyday.</p>

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<p>He has aspergers. You’re a monster.</p>

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<p>Block him and then avoid him? ;]</p>

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<p>i can’t avoid him, we’re in the same us government class.</p>

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<p>You’re not supposed to treat other people like crap, regardless of their mental state. So saying that they want to be treated just like everyone else doesn’t qualify you to say negative things about them. Nor are you qualified to determine the level of his learning disability. In addition, despite their desires to be treated equally, they may or may not have the capacity to act as such, something that should be taken into account when dealing with them.</p>

<p>The kid doesn’t know that what he’s doing is wrong or even weird. Tell him politely to stop.</p>

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<p>o.O
Since you are a CC, I assume you are in a honors or AP Government class. Therefore, he can’t be that “mentally ■■■■■■■■.” He’s just a freak, no?</p>

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<p>I know I’m not suppose to treat other people like crap, other people are told to shut up, etc all the time, so it’s wrong to say negative things about them? I haven’t determined the level of his learning disability, this is from HIS TEACHER, who told us his disability. Normal human beings are treated great at times, at other times treated like crap and told to shut up; so all of a sudden saying negative things to them is wrong?</p>

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<p>I would just talk to him and address the problem directly.</p>

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<p>Just because I’m a CC member doesn’t mean I’m in an honors or AP Govt class. Although there are many smart kids taking 5+ APs, I’m not one of them. :D</p>

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<p>He’s not a monster, stalking is incredibly creepy and he should be worried for his own safety.</p>

<p>There was a girl at my high school who was being stalked by a guy with asperger’s and she was able to get a restraining order on him and he was moved out of all her classes. You may want to try that road.</p>

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<p>^^I’m not taking 5+ APs either, no worries:)</p>

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<p>It’s probably all coincidental.</p>

<p>Em, have you ever tried to talk to the person? Perhaps that will give you more incite. Or maybe he’s hitting on ya. <3</p>

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<p>^I’m not taking 5+ APs either, no worries X2. =]
That was kind of random…</p>

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<p>It sounds more like he has some sort of personality disorder or psychological disease. You don’t have to become friends with him, but be gentle/sensitive when you’re around him. </p>

<p>He’s not a stalker. He’s not a freak. He’s a mentally ill person. Calm down.</p>

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<p>Sounds like me…■■■</p>

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<p>^^^Nice…
^^Agreed.</p>

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<p>Idk if going to such lengths of getting a restraining order would be worth the effort? Is he really that bothersome, or is he in any way endangering you or people you know? I still think you should try confronting him first (with sensitivity, of course), just to see if he’ll stop. If it gets out of hand, see if you can take some legal action.</p>

<p>He can’t really help being that way (I’m assuming a certain level of disorder, though).</p>

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<p>Yes, it definitely sounds like he has Aspergers.</p>

<p>Personally, I feel as if you are over-reacting. He’s not really stalking you in any sort of detrimental way. He’s probably just curious about you, and doesn’t have the social graces to be able to talk to you. So maybe this is his way of getting to know you?</p>

<p>I really don’t think you should condemn for inability to conform to social norms. It’s just not as natural for some as it is for others.</p>

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<p>Block him on Facebook</p>

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<p>+1</p>

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<p>“Normal human beings are treated great at times, at other times treated like crap and told to shut up; so all of a sudden saying negative things to them is wrong?”</p>

<p>Yes. Yes it is wrong. </p>

<p>There’s a mentally handicapped kid in my school who runs from class to class. At my school, you’re not allowed to run. Should my school send this person to the dean’s office?</p>

<p>Another example:</p>

<p>My school has a hands off policy. No hugging or anything like that. There’s a mentally handicapped student who goes around hugging all the girls, should my school suspend him?</p>

<p>Different situations in a person’s life require different treatment. That’s a fact of life. That’s why physically handicapped people get to park closer. That’s why people with learning disabilities get more time to take the SAT. You can’t be rude to person with a mental handicap just because you would be rude to a person without one.</p>