<p>starbury...thanks bro. Ignore monorail. He/she has already left Fordham and just likes picking at Fordham for some reason, which I dont understand. No school is going to be a perfect experience for 100% of the kids. I know kids at a lot of schools who are unhappy for various reasons, but often they fail to look in the mirror and realize it had to do with their own baggage or expectations or inability to adapt. No school wants its students to be unhappy. Is there room for improvement? Of course there is. I met a woman (a minority at that) who was an administrator at a PRESTIGIOUS LAC who earned her undergrad degree at Harvard. She was still ranting about Harvard years later. It can happen anywhere.</p>
<p>Your points starbury are very well taken. My kid is at Fordham and came in with a BUNCH of AP courses and we are anxious to see how it all plays out.....though I will likely insist on my kid staying the four years as I believe that is the best route to take and his/her interests are broad enough to take in a double major. </p>
<p>Life is not a panacea either, nor any job. If you start working for that "dream job" you may become very disillusioned to find out stuff that is going on, how things work behind the curtains. Part of life is learning to deal with adversity, with questionable situations, or with people who are come from different backgrounds and ideals. Nobody promised anyone a rose garden. The people who advance the quickest in the real world are people who are problem SOLVERS, not problem makers. Business likes people who come in with a positive attitude and think of solutions to problems....'challenges' as we call them. Not whiners and complainers. Also, when you leave a job its very unprofessional to start throwing rocks or rotten eggs at your former employer. Its a very small world out there. So learning to either accept the situation at college or move along gracefully is an important lesson for students. </p>
<p>I once knew a girl who had a wicked temper and a road rage problem. She once flipped someone off at an intersection who cut in front of her. She applied for a job about 6 months later and to her shock and surprise, the interviewer was THAT PERSON she had flipped off and they remembered the situation. It was very awkward to say the least. She did NOT get the job.</p>
<p>Starbury: Congratulations on your recent graduation! I wish you very well in your career or continued studies. </p>
<p>Fordham is a great school and kids should be grateful they have an opportunity to go there. Just yesterday on Hardball with Chris Matthews, Pat Buchanan (a Georgetown graduate) was saying nice things about Fordham University...much to Matthews irritation! LOL.</p>
<p>I know someone from Iowa State who earned a degree in Russian and advanced in the State Department very high. Do you think Iowa State is a perfect school without problems? </p>
<p>We should all be working (parents, students, alumns) towards making Fordham a better school and bringing in top talent and helping Fordham with fund raising to improve its facilities. It will never completely shed its commuter students nor should it. Fordham proudly accepts students with a lower socio economic background to mix into the class with kids from uber wealth on Long Island and New Jersey and Connecticut (as well as far away states). That is a good thing. Its part of the experience: mixing in with people of different backgrounds and cultures. I am no bleeding heart liberal, mind you, but I see a high value in bringing in local kids from poor neighborhoods in the New York area, as Fordham has done for years, to great acclaim and success. Did Denzel Washington come from money? I dont think so. </p>
<p>I live several states away. Just the other day I was at a car dealer for servicing and an old man saw my Fordham Rams hat. He lit up like a christmas tree and in a very strong New York accent remarked, "Not many people know Fordham. Did you go there?" I told him my kid is there now and I proudly wear the cap. He was tickled pink. </p>
<p>Congrats again and good luck.</p>