<p>He knew what your relationship with him was until you ruined everything by agreeing to go to the prom with him. Now he doesn’t know is it the same as it was or is it closer, or what? Has he ever kissed you? If not, he’s wondering what will happen if he does, and what will happen if he doesn’t. He’s probably suddenly aware now of how much he’s been texting you. Is it too much? Is he coming across as pushy? He’s afraid to do anything and afraid not to do anything.</p>
<p>I’d recommend you text him. Keep it friendly – not about prom, just about stuff – so he starts to feel the ground filling in under his feet again. Once some of those self-doubts begin to evaporate he’ll start turning back into the same guy who asked you (more or less…). </p>
<p>And on behalf of shy high school guys everywhere, THANK YOU! I was a shy high school guy once upon a time, who only ever asked one girl and never did make it to the prom.</p>
<p>Ok I feel like I have I different opinion. The way I see it is this guy feels like he has already won by getting you to go to prom with him, so he feels on top of his world and probably has his confidence boosted up. He probably isn’t texting you or talking as much because he is probably use to you doing it first or bringing up topics. He might be really into you but trying to lay back so it’s not obvious. Right now he has you where I would want a girl that I’m interested in but not yet going out with which is where the girl is confused. I agree with everyone else that you should talk to him still and start convos/texts but I think if you want to drive him crazy right back you should ignor him, but just a little bit… This will drive him nuts about you because he is so use to having you text him. For example end the convos/text first to make it seem like you are busy so there for he will start to wonder how interested you are in him so he will attempt to find out again.</p>
<p>thanks for your responses I am still very confused about everything but I am going to see him 2moro in school.
He usually texts me first on the weekends and everything…but he hasnt
When I see him, I am going to decide what’s actually going through his head.</p>
<p>We never kissed or anything…actually, we’ve always been weird around each other. Like you know when you catch someone staring at you and then they quickly move their eyes (lol)? He did that a lot since sophomore year. I don’t understand why he’s so ackward around me be/c around other people/girls he’s so outgoing…and he’s attractive so I don’t know why he would feel insecure.
All I know is that he needs to get his act together quickly be/c I have to start prom shopping asap :p</p>
<p>Give him a hug (if it wasn’t common between you before) or a kiss, so he knows you’re really in a relationship and that you haven’t just misinterpreted his prom invitation as “for friends.”</p>
<p>Do it anyway! Take the plunge! HE asked YOU to prom, and it seems he must like you on some level. I’m sure he wouldn’t mind a quick hug or kiss, even if he’s shy, it’ll probably make him feel better and more secure in your relationship.</p>
<p>Anyway, I brought the topic up and he got excited and happy lmaoo…i think he was trying to say something about prom,etc but he was nervous. Unfortunately, this happened through text message…I am working on our person-to-person interaction.</p>
<p>UPDATE----
he just revealed like he has liked me since the first day he met me. you know the love type of liking lol
well…some people definitely have a weird way of showing it.</p>
<p>Yea i know
it kinda sucks because I really like him too but I can be quite socially awkward.
Our prom is 2 weeks from now…I want him to kiss me.</p>
<p>holy crap! he just asked me out on prom night
now I have to deal with having a bf rigt before leaving for college.
we havent kissed yet but we danced extremely close</p>
<p>^^LOL. Kissy face??!! Somehow that just conjures up an image of someone going around with a puckered up mouth and leaning into their date all the time. xD</p>
<p>Aww, this thread is sooo cute. OP, it’s pretty obv he wants all that you do too. So, swallow in your shyness and just hug him everytime you meet him. And if he’s that shy, then don’t ‘wear your kissy face’ (whatever that means lol) and wait for him to kiss you. Just go and kiss him alreadddyy!! Otherwise, I’m pretty sure that nothing will happen and you both will keep waiting haha. xD</p>
<p>lol we went out the other night and we held hands and “cuddled”…but no kissies yet…just hugs
he’s so shy!! I have to get used to taking the initiative but it’s so hard be/c I believe so strongly in the traditional 1950s view of a male/female relationship. that needs to change immediately lol.</p>
I was a shy high school guy once upon a time, who only ever asked one girl and never did make it to the prom.</p>
