<p>I am in first year, when should I begin seeking the opposite sex? I don't even bother dressing flashy and my hair has always been a mess (combing failed, sometimes it made it worse).</p>
<p>Will girls still like me? Or should I wait after grad school?</p>
<p>I asked my mom a similar question like this the other day: “When should I get a camera?” She told me to wait after Christmas. So, I think I’m going to tell you the same thing, OP – Wait after Christmas.</p>
<p>I personally can’t see myself in a serious relationship right now. And I don’t feel the urge to mess around either. I don’t know anybody else who has a serious relationship. For the few ones who do, they’re either for booty call or social status or whatever. Whatever fits your character I guess.</p>
<p>I agree with MushaboomBlue: LOL @ the question</p>
<p>Personally, I love to flirt with girls and all, but I’ve always tended to stay away from relationships (partially because I have limited time and partially because I’m lazy, if that’s the right word, to do all that work). Also, even if there is a hot girl that likes me, I wouldn’t really want to get in a relationship with her because then there is always talk, and talk screws with you/your studies/your other relationships. I would just try to hook up with her and keep it a secret (even though that rarely works out, even though I don’t know why a girl would really want to tell anyways). Just go with what suits you. If you feel like you have time and you are willing to put up with a bunch of different stuff, then go for it. If not, then don’t.</p>
<p>Don’t get one anytime soon. Random hookups are the way to go for the first couple years of college. It’s stupid to limit yourself to one woman. Just go through as many as you can and don’t look back</p>