<p>Loserman, to be very specific: you need to get a job to support yourself financially. I don’t know if that will be in an office cubicle, or in a UPS shop, or as a clerk at a store, or a waiter, or a cook…But, you need to get a job.</p>
<p>The growing up will happen over time. </p>
<p>Good luck to you.</p>