<p>Suze:</p>
<p>You need to borrow a copy of "The Gatekeepers" from the school library and pay particular attention to the story of the girl from Harvard-Westlake prep in Los Angeles.</p>
<p>With your SATs, a high class rank at Andover, a checkmark in the Af-Am box, and an an application that falls in the decent to good category, Dartmouth (or any other school of similar selectivity) will be an appropriate safety for your college list. There is no such thing as a "reach" for you. In fact, every school you apply to will wine and dine you to attend. </p>
<p>A "tip" doesn't begin to describe the way schools will be falling over themselves to recruit you. They will all send you plane tickets to visit, etc. I will be shocked if you ever see a rejection letter or waitlist, regardless of where you apply -- again, assuming you don't submit one of those "horrendous" applications Michele Hernandez refered to.</p>
<p>[Note: Having said all that, you should still apply to at least one college down the selectivity chain from Dartmouth just for piece of mind. But, you won't need it.]</p>
<p>As long as you check the Af-Am box, you are all set. Whether you decide to also check the White box is up to you. It won't make any difference one way or another. Your app will go into the URM pile.</p>
<p>The only potential downside: some kids in your situation kind of resent being singled out for special treatment -- the "diversity days", the assumption that you automatically want to be hosted by the Af-Am Student Group your visits, rather than being treated like any other applicant, etc. If you feel that way, then just tell 'em.</p>
<p>If you are lookin' around for essay topics, I would consider the possibility of writing a (hopefully positive) essay about your experiences in both black high-schools and an elite prep school. That's a topic that not many kids can write about and I think it would be the kind of thing that could resonate postively in admissons offices. Doesn't have to draw any grand, sweeping conclusions (perhaps better if it doesn't) -- just paint the reader a picture of a few simple events that give a glimpse of your experience. </p>
<p>BTW, a very significant chunk of the URM students at the ultra-elite colleges are of mixed race and may or may not "look" like their checkbox on the app. Offhand, I would guess as many as a quarter of the students at my daughter's school are "something" AND "something else". It's a pretty cool environment when race and ethnicity become non-issues because the lines are so indistinct nobody can figure them out to begin with. How do you "stereotype" a Chilean/Pakistani?</p>