<p>Ha! Crazy? Just read my CC name!</p>
<p>What makes people crazy during college application season? The internet. Just a few years ago (2001, living in a small town in the midwest) we had dial up internet service that took forever to download anything, and one single desktop computer. Now we have lightning fast service on our desktop, laptops, I-Pads and phones. Research is so darned simple and easy now, so we all have more choices, more to compare, and a wide network of friends and virtual friends to give us advice. So much information. So much advice. It can make you crazy.</p>
<p>Like a few other posters, I live in the DC area, and yes, parents are crazy here. Not everyone, and not even everyone in my immediate area. But the crazy increases with income and education and place of parental origin. Wealthy self-made realtor, who grew up in a rural part of the state and barely made it through undergrad at a very âlowlyâ instate directional? Totally down to earth. On the same street, a double income doctor/lawyer, both of whom are from wealthy east coast areas, both of whom went to âeliteâ private undergrad and even more elite grad school? Completely crazy. (This is for illustrative purposes, and not intended to start an argument. It isnât a slam directed to doctors and lawyers. These are just a couple of families I know who live a couple of blocks from each other.)</p>
<p>There are parents around (the doctor/lawyer family) my area who start hard core SAT prep in early middle school, who are driven (in terms of their kidsâ achievements) in ways that appear to be crazy from the outside, but from the inside of their own heads, homes, social and work circles seem totally normal.</p>
<p>And there is a parental pressure around here that (in my opinion) is more destructive than productive. I have a kid who was kicked off a 5th grade sport club team because she/we were not devoted enough to the sport and team. This was because she also loved band, and missed some tournaments and practices due to musical commitments. In fifth grade. This was crazy.</p>
<p>On the other hand, there are so many families who DO completely devote themselves to a travel/club team that it can be impossible for a child to make the local public high school sport team if she hasnât played club sports for years because so many other kids HAVE. We know a family who drives their high school student two hours, one way, twice a week to practice with the number one ranked club team for that sport in the nation. They have been doing this for years, because the more local teams just arenât good enough. (The more local teams are ranked lower nationally, but are above the level of playing with rocks and branches torn from trees. The local club teams compete in the same tournaments, and sometimes beat the #1 ranked team. But the rankings matter to this fsmily.) It is a kind of crazy that is obvious from the outside, but seems normal and rational from the inside. </p>